Saturday, January 23, 2010

What to tell my parents when I got caught by my friends parents smoking weed?

I was at my friends house and his parents walked in on us smoking weed and they told me that I have to tell my parents or else they would. How should I tell my parents that i was smoking weed with them getting the least mad?What to tell my parents when I got caught by my friends parents smoking weed?
Just be up front and honest about it. There is really no way around it.


And if you are actually sorry for your actions that might help.What to tell my parents when I got caught by my friends parents smoking weed?
Peer Pressure


You got to portray yourself as a victim. Actually coming to them about it would help with that portrayal alot. Be like there were alot of people there who were smoking and they were giving you a hard time because you weren't smoking, and then you finally broke. You should start tearing (teering?) up towards that part of the story, and just say your really really sorry and it was no fun anyway and you'll never do it again. If you play your cards right your people will be more sorry for you than mad. Then they may still trust you (especially because you came to them) and you can go out and continue smoking. The first time you get busted is always the hardest. If they catch you again, it wont be so bad, and if you get caught as much as I did in high school, eventually they just wont care anymore. I dont think you want to get to that point though.
Tell them, they'd rather hear it from you that anyone else,
you have to tell them


if ur parents find out from anyone else but u they will be extra mad


just tell them


they are going to be mad


but tell them and dont smoke again


seriously its not worth it
OMG U DESERVE PUNISHMENT! but tell them i just wanted to see wat it looked like
Just tell them that you were stupid enough to smoke weed and that you will never do it again.
The first Thing you do is go to somebody that you can trust(a grown up perhaps..that you know is not going to yell at you) you tell them the situation and then see if its posible that they can sit with your parents and talk about it.
yea just lie and tell them that you only wanted to try it. But if they keep on catching you, then it gets a lot harder to lie.





Then you gotta try to convince them that weed isn't really all that bad but first memorize the facts about it and you'll find yourself winning in the argument that weed is not all that bad.





Everyone tries it
tell them it has been nagging your conscience and that it was peer pressure :)
Does it matter how you tell them. This is your chance to taking a step toward man hood, cow boy up and do your deed. They will appreciate hearing it from you, then some one else. And be careful how you word it, that they don't get the impression that it's your friend and he's a bad influence. Take the blame for doing want you did on your own free will.
Tell them that you smoked weed at your friends house and actually don't do it again.
just straight up tell them. they'll probably be more disappointed than mad. %26amp; it would be alot easier on you if they heard it from you instead of someone else. they should understand that everyone tries smoking pot at least once in their life, %26amp; you were just being a teenager %26amp; experimenting. just tell them that you accept all punishment %26amp; you aren't going to try it again.
At your very best opportunity, call your parents together and just tell them what you did. They certainly will take it better than being called by that other kid's parent and hear of it that way.





I don't know how you want to handle the ';I won't ever do it again, thing,'; because you pretty much know you will, but you may have to make that promise and if you do it'll be up to you as to whether or not you live up to the promise, if made.
just tell them yourself. say that you just wanted to try it once to get the curiosity out of the way. say that you didn't like the way it made you feel (even if it isn't true) and that you will never do it again. they may be disappointed in you... but i don't think they'll get mad.





ask them if when they were teenagers... if they ever got curious with alcohol or cigarettes... maybe even weed. i guarantee you that they did.


asking those questions might make them go a little easier on you, remembering their teenage years.





that's what i did... and my dad wasn't mad at me or even disappointed because he did it to, so he understood.





my mom on the other hand...she went crazy... but that's just how she is. :/


she experimented when she was younger, but always says that it was different. and really it isn't. :/
tell them it was a one time thing and you will not do it again
to the first answer, i highly doubt that gonna work.


but then again nothing really can get yuu outta this.


hahaha, thats suucks.


yuur pretty much screwed buut do it at dinner.


i think thats the best place to do it.


idk why.


just seems good.


well good luuck.


%26lt;33
This happened to me one time! Maybe you could try to make a deal with your friends parents, if they're cool. Maybe you could tell them that you will take a drug test (that you will pay for) every month for as long as they want. This worked for me. There are ways to pass a home test even if you're dirty, if you are still wanting to smoke, although I'm not encouraging you. Just google it.





If you really do have to tell your parents though, I would write them a letter. Say your sorry, it was just a one time thing etc. This way, you won't get their initial reaction, and they'll probably only talk to you after they have calmed down. Also, if they do punish you, which you should probably be prepared for, just accept it gracefully. Even if it's unfair, if you fight it, you will just make them more angry.





Good luck and try not to get caught next time! ;)

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