How do I tell my boyfriend's parents that their son is depressed and possibly suicidal?

I want it to write an anonymous letter.How do I tell my boyfriend's parents that their son is depressed and possibly suicidal?
and in a language they understand... why would you want it to be anonymous if he's your bf ?How do I tell my boyfriend's parents that their son is depressed and possibly suicidal?
write a letter


no have him write one


I did my folks cried


tension


but it will pass


and be better
WHY would you want to write them an anonymous letter of that is what you think is going on with him? You just might save his life if you talk to them in person.
with a deeep breath, and the thought that u r doing every1 a favore
If they have met you and know you well, I think you shouldn't tell them anything but ask if they notice something different about their son. Leave it up to them to figure out what you are telling them by suggestions that lead them in the right direction. Make sure they understand what the concern is but to talk to them in an accusing way toward your boyfriend could cause him to retaliate against you. Be genuine and be honest. Hint around and let them handle it. You could visit with him about it, too. It's good to know people care!! You're a fine gal!!
Telling them in person is best, of course. You'll be taken the most seriously that way. But there are definitely situations where that would be very difficult, and if you think he really needs help, you should do whatever it takes to help him. If you don't know his parents that well, or you're too shy to talk to them in person, of you're just afraid your boyfriend will find out who told them and feel betrayed... well, those are all fair reasons to write an anonymous letter instead. Your intentions are clearly good, so just do what you have to. However you go about it, you obviously care alot about him and you're doing the right thing. If you write a letter, use a real letter left in their mailbox, not e-mail, and write it by hand rather than typing it. That way it's more personal, and they'll probably take it more seriously.





Incidentally, one of my little sister's friends did this. They talked to our mom in person about how they thought she was depressed. Our mom never told my sister or anyone who it was, and even though my sister was angry at first, when she thought about it more she was really touched that her friends cared about her so much...
DONT WRITE AN ANONYMOUS LETTER.


just take them in private, preferably somewhere


away from your boyfriend and tell them the honest truth.


convince them that it is true and crucial for them to be understanding.





good luck
If you are truly sure than yes you need to tell them. It's very easy to send an anonymous email, much easier than a letter.
Would you want to get an anonymous letter like that if you had a son? It would either worry them crazy or they would dismiss it as a joke. Have enough guts to aproach them in person if it is that serious. Call them up and ask to speak to the dad. Tell him that you like the boy very much as a friend and you are concerned about him. Ask him if he would like to discuss it . If he says yes then tell him that you would like to do it face to face and not over the phone, especially if the boy is at home. Arrange to meet somewhre like a resturant, one or both of them. If they are defensive and have deaf ears, you are waisting your time . Don't push it.
If it is too hard to tell them in person, write them a letter. But, make sure they get it and read it.
An anonymous letter may be misperceived and ill-intentioned. You will score major points with the family if you are honest. If what you are worrying about is him finding out, try to make contact when he is not home and the parents are and have them meet you somewhere. Depression with suicidal ideation is a big deal and might be better received from someone close, like you, instead of a letter. Worse, the parents may know and be in denial and need face to face input from someone like you with a vested interest in their son. I do not envy you in your dilemma, Good Luck
Sit down with his parents and simply tell them you have noticed a dramtic change in his mood and behavior.and that they need to what was going on Then be able to answer any questions they may have
Be honest and factual. They have a right to know so they can intervene if necessary. You have the responsibility to tell them becuase you are aware of the problem. You do not want to live with this on your shoulders. Help him out. Tell his parents.
If I were you, I would go for the idea of writhing the letter.
Do not write an anonymous letter. Tell them face to face.. Tell them all of your concerns before it is to late.. Hold nothing back they need to hear it all even if they don't want to hear it make them.. If you love him you need to find a way to get him help.. Would you rather him be mad at you than you to say IF ONLY I HAD DONE THIS...
nice and quick!
No I think if you care about him, you would be honest with them and tell them straight out even though it may be hard, you need to do it so if he did anything stupid you could forgive yourself.
Well, if you're younger and go to high school, I would start by telling your counselor at school and they will tell his parents, and your name will never be mentioned.
Type, or I'd get someone else to write: ';I have become aware that your son, ..... has recently become severely depressed and is experiencing suicidal ideation';. It is vital that this matter be addressed urgently, because the suicide rate of teenagers these days is far too high, and you just can't afford to take such a risk. Thousands of others never find out, beforehand, that there is a problem, and feel guilty for the rest of their lives, for not recognising the signs, and offering help, when there was still time. Signed: a concerned fellow human being.'; See suicidal thoughts, and depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris in sections 5, and 2: print/refer them. It may well be better to get someone else to read the above text over the phone, to minimise delay, but advise that a letter is following, so they will know this is not a crank call.
that's not bad but I would type it your b/f probably knows your handwriting by now, otherwise you will have to tell them in person and that will cause a multitude of problems