Right now I'm jobless, -$700 on credit card, and low amount of cash.
I'm trying to figure out how to best get loans, schalorships, etc. To go to the art institute in San Francisco. I am also wondering about housing and work around the area which is flexable to a college schedual.
Mainly I'm going after various graphics and animations work with some programming. So maybe work with the game graphics and programming courses there.Best way to plan getting out of parents house and into chosen college?
Start by filling out a FAFSA, and applying to the college you have chosen. They will help you with financial aid, and also they are likely to have a housing office that can help you find a place to live near their campus, and also roommates.Best way to plan getting out of parents house and into chosen college?
I can tell you right now that cost of living in the Bay Area is very expensive. You should at least get a part-time job to supplement your student loans.
Best advice: DO NOT PICKUP ANY UNNESSECARY DEBT! Cut up your credit card NOW and pay it off. Trust me, if you can't afford it, don't buy it. Lots of debt can completely derail your life. My younger brother racked up thousands of dollars in non-student loans and can't afford to do anything but work 50 hours a week and live in a crappy apartment for the next 3 years.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
How do I deal with overly religious parents?
Ok, I do not live with my parents anymore thankfully but when I visit for two weeks or so during college breaks, I feel kinda suffocated by how religious my parents are. I do not mind if they choose to be religious but it is definitely painful when they force you to take part in their religious ceremonies. I have tried to tell them politely of how Im not interested but whenever I do, it leads to a huge fight or argument. What should I do to survive these breaks?How do I deal with overly religious parents?
i totally agree with Stormy S. your living with them for 2 weeks, it's their house and their 'rules'.
go with the flow. if you want to avoid the argument just go with the flow. if you really don't to, then just pretend to do whatever it is they want you to do. How do I deal with overly religious parents?
If you are going to stay under your parent's roof for two weeks then you need to tolerate having to live under their rules as well. This is THEIR home not your's any longer and they have the right to expect anyone staying there to follow their rules. If you don't like it I suggest when you go ';home'; to visit that you stay in a motel/hotel or with someone else. They don't have to change their lifestyle in their home just because YOU visit. Grow up and get over yourself.
umm well afterall its only a couple weeks but i can relate i liv with my parents and i have to go to church everysun and wed nights and stuff but ya ur parents do sound over religious but anyways (i feel your pain) lol haha good luck in life!!!!!!!!! = P
pretend to have an excorcism during one of the ceromonys :D
have a talk with them
i totally agree with Stormy S. your living with them for 2 weeks, it's their house and their 'rules'.
go with the flow. if you want to avoid the argument just go with the flow. if you really don't to, then just pretend to do whatever it is they want you to do. How do I deal with overly religious parents?
If you are going to stay under your parent's roof for two weeks then you need to tolerate having to live under their rules as well. This is THEIR home not your's any longer and they have the right to expect anyone staying there to follow their rules. If you don't like it I suggest when you go ';home'; to visit that you stay in a motel/hotel or with someone else. They don't have to change their lifestyle in their home just because YOU visit. Grow up and get over yourself.
umm well afterall its only a couple weeks but i can relate i liv with my parents and i have to go to church everysun and wed nights and stuff but ya ur parents do sound over religious but anyways (i feel your pain) lol haha good luck in life!!!!!!!!! = P
pretend to have an excorcism during one of the ceromonys :D
have a talk with them
Can someone please help me with information on retaining Power of Attorney for a terminally parent?
My mom is terminally ill. Unfortunately, she hasn't made any preparations for either healthcare or what to do after she's passed away. And there are 6 surviving children and unfortunately, only 2 of us are really responsible and don't want the burden of unexpected expenses to sneak up on us. We'd really like to try and get things in order as much as possible. My youngest brother and I will most likely be the ones financially responsible for any extra costs. Because of this, we'd really like to have say in her healthcare, as well as funeral arrangements.Can someone please help me with information on retaining Power of Attorney for a terminally parent?
Many physicians offices, hospitals, and nursing homes have the forms for the advance healthcare directive (living will). If you can't find one, you can download one from the Pennsylvania Medical Society website. http://www.pamedsoc.org/Template.cfm?Sec鈥?/a>
As regards to financial matters, I would suggest that Mom's attorney prepare a General Power of Attorney naming one of the responsible children to make financial decisions, sell real estate, authorize medical and surgical procedures, deal with stocks and bonds and United States Savings Bonds, etc. Other responders have said ';Just get a form from a stationery store and have her sign it.'; I disagree. An attorney should determine if Mom is competent to sign a General Power of Attorney. And remember, the attorney who prepares this document is working for Mom, and not for you. The power of attorney should be witnessed and acknowledged. Make several originals because ofteh some financial organizations insist on an original. The acknowledgment in the presence of a Notary Public is important because it makes the document recordable in the event it is necessary to sell real estate and use the POA as authorization to sign a deed. Most lawyers I know now include HIPAA authorization to enable the agent to speak with then physician on behalf of the principal to make medical decisions.
If Mom is not competent to sign a General Power of Attorney, as a last resort, it may be necessary to have her adjudicated an ';incapacitated person.';
If there is a possibility that Mom may go into a nursing home and quickly exhaust her assets, it would be advisable to ';pre-pay'; her funeral expenses. This is permitted under Medicaid regulations.Can someone please help me with information on retaining Power of Attorney for a terminally parent?
you can hire an attorney or do it yourself.go to office depot and get a power of attorney form. fill it out for finance and health list the power of attorneys names have your mon sign it giving power of attorney to you. have it notorized and filed with the clerk of court. give a copy to her bank you should be able to handle her financial affairs. check with the state in which you live for further info not all states are standard
You can get the software and print it up off your computer and I also believe that most office supply stores carry the forms.
Most of her assets should have been or need to be put into a Trust, so it doesn't have to be probated after she is gone. In the meantime, if you are looking for a POA, have your attorney draw one up (make it specific, not a general one) and have your mom sign it! Sorry about your mom!
You need to go talk to an attorney, is your mom alert and thinking clearly? If so you can get forms for a living will on line and help her complete it. Also, talk to her about an advance directive you can get the forms from her doctor, this will let the family know how she wants her end of life to go and the doctor will keep one for his record. An advance directive will discuss life support. As far as expenses you will need an attorney to probate the estate once she passes, and usually once someone dies the creditors don't usually pursue collection from the estate unless the estate has a lot of assets. House payments and such that are large will have to be paid That is why you will need an attorney to help you through the process.
Many physicians offices, hospitals, and nursing homes have the forms for the advance healthcare directive (living will). If you can't find one, you can download one from the Pennsylvania Medical Society website. http://www.pamedsoc.org/Template.cfm?Sec鈥?/a>
As regards to financial matters, I would suggest that Mom's attorney prepare a General Power of Attorney naming one of the responsible children to make financial decisions, sell real estate, authorize medical and surgical procedures, deal with stocks and bonds and United States Savings Bonds, etc. Other responders have said ';Just get a form from a stationery store and have her sign it.'; I disagree. An attorney should determine if Mom is competent to sign a General Power of Attorney. And remember, the attorney who prepares this document is working for Mom, and not for you. The power of attorney should be witnessed and acknowledged. Make several originals because ofteh some financial organizations insist on an original. The acknowledgment in the presence of a Notary Public is important because it makes the document recordable in the event it is necessary to sell real estate and use the POA as authorization to sign a deed. Most lawyers I know now include HIPAA authorization to enable the agent to speak with then physician on behalf of the principal to make medical decisions.
If Mom is not competent to sign a General Power of Attorney, as a last resort, it may be necessary to have her adjudicated an ';incapacitated person.';
If there is a possibility that Mom may go into a nursing home and quickly exhaust her assets, it would be advisable to ';pre-pay'; her funeral expenses. This is permitted under Medicaid regulations.Can someone please help me with information on retaining Power of Attorney for a terminally parent?
you can hire an attorney or do it yourself.go to office depot and get a power of attorney form. fill it out for finance and health list the power of attorneys names have your mon sign it giving power of attorney to you. have it notorized and filed with the clerk of court. give a copy to her bank you should be able to handle her financial affairs. check with the state in which you live for further info not all states are standard
You can get the software and print it up off your computer and I also believe that most office supply stores carry the forms.
Most of her assets should have been or need to be put into a Trust, so it doesn't have to be probated after she is gone. In the meantime, if you are looking for a POA, have your attorney draw one up (make it specific, not a general one) and have your mom sign it! Sorry about your mom!
You need to go talk to an attorney, is your mom alert and thinking clearly? If so you can get forms for a living will on line and help her complete it. Also, talk to her about an advance directive you can get the forms from her doctor, this will let the family know how she wants her end of life to go and the doctor will keep one for his record. An advance directive will discuss life support. As far as expenses you will need an attorney to probate the estate once she passes, and usually once someone dies the creditors don't usually pursue collection from the estate unless the estate has a lot of assets. House payments and such that are large will have to be paid That is why you will need an attorney to help you through the process.
What is the legal age you are allowed to leave your home w/o your parents being allowed to stop you?
I am in Canada, and my dad is a real asshole. I've considered other options, still thinking it through though. In Canada, Alberta, Edmonton what is the legal age you can leave your home and live with someone else without your parents being allowed to stop you?What is the legal age you are allowed to leave your home w/o your parents being allowed to stop you?
Google it.What is the legal age you are allowed to leave your home w/o your parents being allowed to stop you?
In the US, it's actually 17. Once you are 17, your parents cannot report you as a runaway and have no control over you. As for Canada, I have no idea.
If you're still living under their roof, you must obey their rules!
excuse me, little ';girl'; you are one disrespectful, impolite, rude, overweight child!
I know in Ontario its 16. I don't know if it is a provincial or federal jurisdiction.
18
you must be 18 to leave your home, and they cant do anything about it because your an adult
GO TO ASK .COM AND ASK THAT VERY QUESTION ...IT WILL GIVE YOU YOUR ANSWER..HERE IN THE STATES..ITS 18 YEARS OF AGE..GOOD LUCK
shanelle your dumb
check online, it has to tell you
here in la, california, its 18
good thing to
Google it.What is the legal age you are allowed to leave your home w/o your parents being allowed to stop you?
In the US, it's actually 17. Once you are 17, your parents cannot report you as a runaway and have no control over you. As for Canada, I have no idea.
If you're still living under their roof, you must obey their rules!
excuse me, little ';girl'; you are one disrespectful, impolite, rude, overweight child!
I know in Ontario its 16. I don't know if it is a provincial or federal jurisdiction.
18
you must be 18 to leave your home, and they cant do anything about it because your an adult
GO TO ASK .COM AND ASK THAT VERY QUESTION ...IT WILL GIVE YOU YOUR ANSWER..HERE IN THE STATES..ITS 18 YEARS OF AGE..GOOD LUCK
shanelle your dumb
check online, it has to tell you
here in la, california, its 18
good thing to
Best way to plan getting out of parents house and into chosen college?
Right now I'm jobless, -$700 on credit card, and low amount of cash.
I'm trying to figure out how to best get loans, schalorships, etc. To go to the art institute in San Francisco. I am also wondering about housing and work around the area which is flexable to a college schedual.
Mainly I'm going after various graphics and animations work with some programming. So maybe work with the game graphics and programming courses there.Best way to plan getting out of parents house and into chosen college?
Start by filling out a FAFSA, and applying to the college you have chosen. They will help you with financial aid, and also they are likely to have a housing office that can help you find a place to live near their campus, and also roommates.Best way to plan getting out of parents house and into chosen college?
I can tell you right now that cost of living in the Bay Area is very expensive. You should at least get a part-time job to supplement your student loans.
Best advice: DO NOT PICKUP ANY UNNESSECARY DEBT! Cut up your credit card NOW and pay it off. Trust me, if you can't afford it, don't buy it. Lots of debt can completely derail your life. My younger brother racked up thousands of dollars in non-student loans and can't afford to do anything but work 50 hours a week and live in a crappy apartment for the next 3 years.jabbawockeez mask
I'm trying to figure out how to best get loans, schalorships, etc. To go to the art institute in San Francisco. I am also wondering about housing and work around the area which is flexable to a college schedual.
Mainly I'm going after various graphics and animations work with some programming. So maybe work with the game graphics and programming courses there.Best way to plan getting out of parents house and into chosen college?
Start by filling out a FAFSA, and applying to the college you have chosen. They will help you with financial aid, and also they are likely to have a housing office that can help you find a place to live near their campus, and also roommates.Best way to plan getting out of parents house and into chosen college?
I can tell you right now that cost of living in the Bay Area is very expensive. You should at least get a part-time job to supplement your student loans.
Best advice: DO NOT PICKUP ANY UNNESSECARY DEBT! Cut up your credit card NOW and pay it off. Trust me, if you can't afford it, don't buy it. Lots of debt can completely derail your life. My younger brother racked up thousands of dollars in non-student loans and can't afford to do anything but work 50 hours a week and live in a crappy apartment for the next 3 years.
How do I make money from my parents?
I am going shopping soon, and my parents said I need to pay (for most of it) and they won't let me take money out of my bank account. How do I make money from my parents (without getting an actual job) that will be easy?How do I make money from my parents?
ONLY your parents can tell you what, if anything, THEY will pay you for. You CAN'T charge more than your customer, whoever that is is willing to pay. Thy asking your neighbors if there is anything they will pay you to do.How do I make money from my parents?
I think your best bet is to ask them. Your parents aren't going to pay you for doing your normal chores. Maybe you could see if your neighbors have any odd jobs you can do. I think they are trying to teach you that you must work hard if you want things, and so I think you should try to show them you are willing to do that, not look for an easy way out.
Ask for an allowance. Agree to do certain chores for a weekly fee.
Otherwise, you'll just have to earn it (babysitting, doing chores for neighbors, etc). Don't expect to get something (money) for nothing (no work) - no child should be that spoiled and entitled.
I was EXPECTED to do chores and never got paid for doing them. But when it came to for money to go do things, I was given some.
Ask what are some extra things you could do around the house to earn money for this shopping trip. Paint a room, do some yard work, clean garage, etc. Maybe they will pay you a wage for doing that.
Did it occur to you that you parents intend to have you work for it? A job, wow, what an idea.
As far as getting it from your parents, why not steal it from them?
Go above and beyond what you normally do around the house. Do something huge that will impress them. Cook a fancy dinner one night and do all the cleanup too.
Also, if you are a great kid already (good grades, do well at school, stay out of trouble), they might give you the money without making you work for it.
get a fricken allowance
i get 20 a week
sweeet
ONLY your parents can tell you what, if anything, THEY will pay you for. You CAN'T charge more than your customer, whoever that is is willing to pay. Thy asking your neighbors if there is anything they will pay you to do.How do I make money from my parents?
I think your best bet is to ask them. Your parents aren't going to pay you for doing your normal chores. Maybe you could see if your neighbors have any odd jobs you can do. I think they are trying to teach you that you must work hard if you want things, and so I think you should try to show them you are willing to do that, not look for an easy way out.
Ask for an allowance. Agree to do certain chores for a weekly fee.
Otherwise, you'll just have to earn it (babysitting, doing chores for neighbors, etc). Don't expect to get something (money) for nothing (no work) - no child should be that spoiled and entitled.
I was EXPECTED to do chores and never got paid for doing them. But when it came to for money to go do things, I was given some.
Ask what are some extra things you could do around the house to earn money for this shopping trip. Paint a room, do some yard work, clean garage, etc. Maybe they will pay you a wage for doing that.
Did it occur to you that you parents intend to have you work for it? A job, wow, what an idea.
As far as getting it from your parents, why not steal it from them?
Go above and beyond what you normally do around the house. Do something huge that will impress them. Cook a fancy dinner one night and do all the cleanup too.
Also, if you are a great kid already (good grades, do well at school, stay out of trouble), they might give you the money without making you work for it.
get a fricken allowance
i get 20 a week
sweeet
How do i tell and convince my parents to be home/online schooled?
I do have an stress induced illness which makes school hard.I am not worried about socialness i am already very shy and unsocial.How do i tell and convince my parents to be home/online schooled?
Do your research.
1. Find out what the law says you have to learn.
2. Find out what style you want to follow. Here's a link to help: http://homeschooling.gomilpitas.com/meth鈥?/a>
3. Do more research about that style, or styles.
4. Figure out what subjects you want to study each year, or think you should study. Then pick a curriculum. You can use different ones from different suppliers if you want to. Most people pick resources from here and there. This will help: http://homeschoolreviews.com/
5. Draw it up in a table format, it helps you see the big picture.
6. Show your parents and see if they are ok with your plans.
Basically, if you want to convince them, you have to do the research.How do i tell and convince my parents to be home/online schooled?
Well first you have to be self motivated to get the work done. I am doing on-line school. The university i go to allows me to do my work %26amp; turn it in when i want. I have 2 years to complete it all.
Explain your insecurities about your illness to your parents. Make them understand that you will be able to concentrate and learn better in your own environment, a course it will be less stressful.
Dont forget going to school can teach you how to be socialable don't mess out. Get a friend to try out a sport, hobby, or club at school with you so you arent so shy.
GOOD LUCK
When you show them you've done the research, maybe that will impress and convince them. Here's a link, hopefully your state is included:
http://www.connectionsacademy.com/
Go to them and admit the difficulties u face at ur school...
and make sure u do not suggest them a solution......
Do your research.
1. Find out what the law says you have to learn.
2. Find out what style you want to follow. Here's a link to help: http://homeschooling.gomilpitas.com/meth鈥?/a>
3. Do more research about that style, or styles.
4. Figure out what subjects you want to study each year, or think you should study. Then pick a curriculum. You can use different ones from different suppliers if you want to. Most people pick resources from here and there. This will help: http://homeschoolreviews.com/
5. Draw it up in a table format, it helps you see the big picture.
6. Show your parents and see if they are ok with your plans.
Basically, if you want to convince them, you have to do the research.How do i tell and convince my parents to be home/online schooled?
Well first you have to be self motivated to get the work done. I am doing on-line school. The university i go to allows me to do my work %26amp; turn it in when i want. I have 2 years to complete it all.
Explain your insecurities about your illness to your parents. Make them understand that you will be able to concentrate and learn better in your own environment, a course it will be less stressful.
Dont forget going to school can teach you how to be socialable don't mess out. Get a friend to try out a sport, hobby, or club at school with you so you arent so shy.
GOOD LUCK
When you show them you've done the research, maybe that will impress and convince them. Here's a link, hopefully your state is included:
http://www.connectionsacademy.com/
Go to them and admit the difficulties u face at ur school...
and make sure u do not suggest them a solution......
What is a unique way to tell parents you are expecting on valentines day?
I'm looking to suprise parents with a unique way that I am 12 weeks pregnantWhat is a unique way to tell parents you are expecting on valentines day?
Hand them a valentines day card with the sonogram inside of it. When they open it and look at it, it will definately shock them.What is a unique way to tell parents you are expecting on valentines day?
Take them out to lunch and have a lovely time dont bring it up till the end. Then ask them how they would feel about being grandparent? and then break the newsss! =)
Congratulationssss!
good luck %26amp;%26amp; god bless.
p.s im gunna guess its a boy.
Empty a box of valentines day chocolets(shouldent be hard if you love them) and put a pair of baby booties in there with a ultrasound picture if you have one or a card saying ''your Grandparents''! that would be kinda cool
or make a card saying HAPPY V-DAY GRANDMA AND GRANDPA and hope the ''get it''
Hand them a valentines day card with the sonogram inside of it. When they open it and look at it, it will definately shock them.What is a unique way to tell parents you are expecting on valentines day?
Take them out to lunch and have a lovely time dont bring it up till the end. Then ask them how they would feel about being grandparent? and then break the newsss! =)
Congratulationssss!
good luck %26amp;%26amp; god bless.
p.s im gunna guess its a boy.
Empty a box of valentines day chocolets(shouldent be hard if you love them) and put a pair of baby booties in there with a ultrasound picture if you have one or a card saying ''your Grandparents''! that would be kinda cool
or make a card saying HAPPY V-DAY GRANDMA AND GRANDPA and hope the ''get it''
What challenges would a 20-year old person expect if faced with caring for a parent who had a serious stoke?
What are some of the complications of suffering a severe stroke? What might someone who had to care for that person have to deal with?What challenges would a 20-year old person expect if faced with caring for a parent who had a serious stoke?
Ok, A stroke is caused by a blood clot in the brain.. Meds given are usually blood thinners and maybe blood pressure medicine also.. Complications? There are many, slurred speech,paralysis, brain damage... As far as caring for someone, it depends on how bad the stroke, My mom had a stroke and she suffered mild brain damage, but she can still walk and talk, use the bathroom by herself etc.. Although she can still walk and talk, her mind is not what it used to be at all, she forgets alot and sometimes just stares into space when you talk to her... If the stroke is massive, then 24 hr care may be needed and thats where the nurses come in... that's also where the expense comes in unless the person has really good insurance and then that only lasts so long.....
If you are the caregiver then you will become quite frustrated but so will your loved one or the stroke victim... Before my Mother's stroke she was the smartest person I knew and the stroke has literally damaged her brain to the fact it has reduced her intelligence level so she gets really upset because she feels dumb and incompetent...I get frustrated for the same reasons because it hurts me to see her that way... I could go on and on, been through alot with my Mom.. Email me and we can talk more...... I hoped I helped you some....What challenges would a 20-year old person expect if faced with caring for a parent who had a serious stoke?
They are going to move very very slow and the frustration will be evident
A serious stroke can mean total care of daily activities of living. Do you have any health care training? If the parent can or cannot walk, how are you prepared to move them safely? They may need to be fed and bathed, given meds, etc. Think about what you do for yourself every day. Wash, dress, cook, clean, toileting, etc. Are you really going to be able to handle all this, plus?
More times than not the patient is much better off in a skilled nursing facility. They will be cared for 24/7. And a SNF is better prepared if an emergency arises.
At 20 are you prepared for 24/7? That is what it will take. I do wish you well.
The same as any other person...a 20 year old might have to juggle different responsibilities, like college vs. a family, but it's still difficult to be there for someone who depends on you for everything. After a severe stroke assistance would be needed for personal care (showering, dressing, toileting), feeding, and just about everything else.
It's unfortunate, but a severe stroke victim can be about as capable as a two year old child. They might be able to do a few things for themselves, but largely someone else would need to help them. A home care aid would be a great assist, and they can make anywhere from $8-$15 an hour depending on where you live and if you pay out of pocket or use a service. They can help by providing personal care assistance (ie. shower and dress your loved one while you're at class) and provide much needed companionship.
Medication would depend on the person...most stroke victims don't require specific medication after the stroke unless they needed it before. Things like a lift chair, shower seat, etc. could really help make things easier but are not required. It would be a huge responsibility, because in effect, the care taker becomes the parent.
These are wonderful questions to ask at your local chapter of the Heart and Stroke Foundation.
The Muse
Ok, A stroke is caused by a blood clot in the brain.. Meds given are usually blood thinners and maybe blood pressure medicine also.. Complications? There are many, slurred speech,paralysis, brain damage... As far as caring for someone, it depends on how bad the stroke, My mom had a stroke and she suffered mild brain damage, but she can still walk and talk, use the bathroom by herself etc.. Although she can still walk and talk, her mind is not what it used to be at all, she forgets alot and sometimes just stares into space when you talk to her... If the stroke is massive, then 24 hr care may be needed and thats where the nurses come in... that's also where the expense comes in unless the person has really good insurance and then that only lasts so long.....
If you are the caregiver then you will become quite frustrated but so will your loved one or the stroke victim... Before my Mother's stroke she was the smartest person I knew and the stroke has literally damaged her brain to the fact it has reduced her intelligence level so she gets really upset because she feels dumb and incompetent...I get frustrated for the same reasons because it hurts me to see her that way... I could go on and on, been through alot with my Mom.. Email me and we can talk more...... I hoped I helped you some....What challenges would a 20-year old person expect if faced with caring for a parent who had a serious stoke?
They are going to move very very slow and the frustration will be evident
A serious stroke can mean total care of daily activities of living. Do you have any health care training? If the parent can or cannot walk, how are you prepared to move them safely? They may need to be fed and bathed, given meds, etc. Think about what you do for yourself every day. Wash, dress, cook, clean, toileting, etc. Are you really going to be able to handle all this, plus?
More times than not the patient is much better off in a skilled nursing facility. They will be cared for 24/7. And a SNF is better prepared if an emergency arises.
At 20 are you prepared for 24/7? That is what it will take. I do wish you well.
The same as any other person...a 20 year old might have to juggle different responsibilities, like college vs. a family, but it's still difficult to be there for someone who depends on you for everything. After a severe stroke assistance would be needed for personal care (showering, dressing, toileting), feeding, and just about everything else.
It's unfortunate, but a severe stroke victim can be about as capable as a two year old child. They might be able to do a few things for themselves, but largely someone else would need to help them. A home care aid would be a great assist, and they can make anywhere from $8-$15 an hour depending on where you live and if you pay out of pocket or use a service. They can help by providing personal care assistance (ie. shower and dress your loved one while you're at class) and provide much needed companionship.
Medication would depend on the person...most stroke victims don't require specific medication after the stroke unless they needed it before. Things like a lift chair, shower seat, etc. could really help make things easier but are not required. It would be a huge responsibility, because in effect, the care taker becomes the parent.
These are wonderful questions to ask at your local chapter of the Heart and Stroke Foundation.
The Muse
What percentage of children have two married parents?
I can't help but notice that there are very few kids in this area with two original parents still together. Either it's a step-parent, a single parent, or they are getting a divorce. I'm wondering what the statistics are.What percentage of children have two married parents?
According to a report issued by the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University, only 63% of American children grow up with both biological parents.What percentage of children have two married parents?
I don't know the statistics, but I bet it's very small. I'd say somewhere between 15-30%?
If you figure about half of all marriages end in divorce, also many married people have kids.
However, MANY children are born out of wedlock, or from one night stands, so that adds to the statistics too.
well, 40% of babies born were born to unwed parents last year.
About half of marriages end in divorce within 7 years.
Soooo... doesn't look to good for most kids, which is sad for everyone involved. I think our son is one of only a couple kids in his class whose parents are still together.
I don't know the stats either but my parents are still married/ no divorces on either side of my parents families either. I feel blessed.
i dont know but my parents are divorced:/
do not know but my kids did growing up now my son is having his first and hopefully he will too
According to a report issued by the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University, only 63% of American children grow up with both biological parents.What percentage of children have two married parents?
I don't know the statistics, but I bet it's very small. I'd say somewhere between 15-30%?
If you figure about half of all marriages end in divorce, also many married people have kids.
However, MANY children are born out of wedlock, or from one night stands, so that adds to the statistics too.
well, 40% of babies born were born to unwed parents last year.
About half of marriages end in divorce within 7 years.
Soooo... doesn't look to good for most kids, which is sad for everyone involved. I think our son is one of only a couple kids in his class whose parents are still together.
I don't know the stats either but my parents are still married/ no divorces on either side of my parents families either. I feel blessed.
i dont know but my parents are divorced:/
do not know but my kids did growing up now my son is having his first and hopefully he will too
What do I do about my overprotective parents?
I am 18 years old and my parents are so strict. They do not let me do anything. They don't like my boyfriend and they make me tell them everything I do. They blow my phone up over 100 times. I love them a lot but they need to learn to let me go. I want to move in wit my boyfriend and his mom. But they want let me.What do I do about my overprotective parents?
Sometimes parents find it hard to let go of their kids, cause acknowledging that your kid is an adult now is like acknowledging that you're old. Plus it's a pretty strong instinct to shelter and watch over your kids even when they're not kids anymore.
You're 18, you're an adult, and you can do what you want, but I suggest you sit down and talk with them about it. List examples of people you both know who are doing well but have a reasonable amount of independence. You need to establish trust, if you've spent the past 18 years smoking pot and drinking and sleeping around, they probably don't trust you and maybe they're scared for your life (I know, the chances of you dying are probably not likely but sometimes the older generation doesn't understand this.)
In any case, they can't ';not let you'; move in with your boyfriend. Try to talk to them about it but if they won't hear any reason, grab your stuff and get out. They'll get over itWhat do I do about my overprotective parents?
If I were you; I would ask your parents %26amp; the boyfriends mother to have a meal together. Maybe, at that time You and Your BOYFRIEND COULD BRING UP YOUR AGE.....AND YOUR PLANS FOR THE FUTURE...I hope his are the same as yours. You might see how he feels about this idea...If he is not supportive, He has other plans.
Many, many guys, hit their girl with...THEY DON'T WANT YOU TO GROW UP! THAT IS THEIR WAY OF CONTROLLING WOMEN...If you heard that( not letting you go/ not wanting you to grow up) stuff from him....Think about it.
You don't need him blowing up your phone %26amp; him
making you answer the same questions, they ask.
Good Luck, But think this through,
URN
i agree will the first answerer, but what about college? Aren't your parents going to pay for it? If you are going to college, you will be out on your own. Put on a 'your so right about everything' acts for your mom and dad. And then go enjoy life. :)
you're an adult. your parents didn't ';force'; you to tell them anything. you chose to. and you're choosing to let them tell you what to do. move in with your boyfriend. ignore your parents.
Excuse me did you say you are 18? They will be protective as long as you live there but hey your an adult 18 go leave they can not stop you. But hope you have a good job they won't be paying any of your bills.
I agree with Joe.
Being 18 years old, you're out of your parents house/rules.
18 is considered an adult. Do what you want now. =]
You're 18, you can do whatever you want now, so just leave.jabbawockeez mask
Sometimes parents find it hard to let go of their kids, cause acknowledging that your kid is an adult now is like acknowledging that you're old. Plus it's a pretty strong instinct to shelter and watch over your kids even when they're not kids anymore.
You're 18, you're an adult, and you can do what you want, but I suggest you sit down and talk with them about it. List examples of people you both know who are doing well but have a reasonable amount of independence. You need to establish trust, if you've spent the past 18 years smoking pot and drinking and sleeping around, they probably don't trust you and maybe they're scared for your life (I know, the chances of you dying are probably not likely but sometimes the older generation doesn't understand this.)
In any case, they can't ';not let you'; move in with your boyfriend. Try to talk to them about it but if they won't hear any reason, grab your stuff and get out. They'll get over itWhat do I do about my overprotective parents?
If I were you; I would ask your parents %26amp; the boyfriends mother to have a meal together. Maybe, at that time You and Your BOYFRIEND COULD BRING UP YOUR AGE.....AND YOUR PLANS FOR THE FUTURE...I hope his are the same as yours. You might see how he feels about this idea...If he is not supportive, He has other plans.
Many, many guys, hit their girl with...THEY DON'T WANT YOU TO GROW UP! THAT IS THEIR WAY OF CONTROLLING WOMEN...If you heard that( not letting you go/ not wanting you to grow up) stuff from him....Think about it.
You don't need him blowing up your phone %26amp; him
making you answer the same questions, they ask.
Good Luck, But think this through,
URN
i agree will the first answerer, but what about college? Aren't your parents going to pay for it? If you are going to college, you will be out on your own. Put on a 'your so right about everything' acts for your mom and dad. And then go enjoy life. :)
you're an adult. your parents didn't ';force'; you to tell them anything. you chose to. and you're choosing to let them tell you what to do. move in with your boyfriend. ignore your parents.
Excuse me did you say you are 18? They will be protective as long as you live there but hey your an adult 18 go leave they can not stop you. But hope you have a good job they won't be paying any of your bills.
I agree with Joe.
Being 18 years old, you're out of your parents house/rules.
18 is considered an adult. Do what you want now. =]
You're 18, you can do whatever you want now, so just leave.
What is your pet peeve about other parents?
Do you have any pet peeves about parenting styles or choices other parents make?
My big one is when parents will scream and yell at their children instead of getting off their rear end and doing something about it. A friend of mine is famous for this. She will yell at her 2 year old to quit doing something instead of redirecting her attention to something else. Drives me insane!What is your pet peeve about other parents?
My biggest pet peeve.....woman who take their young sons into the woman's restroom and let them pee on the toilet seat and don't wipe it up!!!!!
Also, parents who don't discipline their children. If your child is screaming in a restaraunt, grocery store, or any public place for that matter, they need a spanking or a serious talking to.What is your pet peeve about other parents?
Are you sure its kids pee tho!
I have so many.
1. Parents who talk constantly about their children but never think to ask you about yours.
2. Parents who brag.
3. Parents who give unsolicited advice.
4. Parents who won't act like adults and instead let their kids run the show.
5. Parents who spoil their kids.
6. Parents who are only nice to you if they feel like your kid is in their kid's social ';league'; and ostracize every other parent whose kid may not be ';cool';
7. Parents who dress like their kids.
8. Parents who scream at soccer/basketball/baseball games and get all super-competitive and try to live through their kids.
9. Parents who won't ever volunteer for anything or donate anything or any time at school, leaving the rest of the parents to do everything.
10. Parents who let their kids swear, talk back, throw tantrums or generally behave like little beasts and think it's ';cute.';
But my biggest pet peeve is ... Parents who let their kids CONSTANTLY INTERRUPT when they are talking to another adult. How hard is it to tell your child, ';Mrs. So-and-so and I are talking. Don't interrupt. I'll be with you in a minute.';???
Parents who don't watch their kids in store. We live in a small town, and so many parents just let their kids run around the grocery store and play while they shop. I mean it is a small town, but its not that small! The other day I was picking up a few things and there was a kid that couldn't have been older than 2 sitting under one of the barbeque grills on display, no parents in sight. So I stopped and asked him if he needed help finding his mommy. He said yes so after glancing around the area I took him and asked one of the cashiers to page his mother, assuming she was in a panic. Well, she got up to the front of the store and looked at me and said ';Oh, was he trying to go out in the parking lot again?'; WHAT! I told her no, that he was playing all alone and figured she was looking for him. She said no, that she always just let her kids play by themselves when she shopped. I just couldn't believe what I was hearing. That's not even right at all! At least she put her kid in the basket and took him with her (I'm sure she could tell I wasn't going let her just leave him there.) Later I saw her in the check out line and with 2 other kids that looked about 4 and 6. And she just let all of them play while she was shopping. I mean I don't let my son even let go of my hand when we're in a store, much less just play by himself!
Sorry I just had to share that stroy because it just makes me sick to think of parents being so irresponsible with their children.......
That is really annoying. I cannot stand when parents do not agree on how to discipline their children. This causes so many ongoing problems.
I really cannot stand when parents think their children are oh-so amazing and the best child on earth. No children are perfect. Period. These who think their children are so perfect let their children get away with EVERYTHING! I have never seen children speak to their parents the way 'these' children do. And the annoying parents allow it so it only gets worse.
I hate it when parents with children older than mine will try to tell me my daughter is behind in her milestones, or try to compare with their children.
ex. I was talking to my friend the other day about how my daughter is starting to be more steady walking now and she says ';she must be behind my son was walking steady at 11 months'; X_x
Oh boy that is a peeve of mine as well!
I cannot stand it when I see 3, 4, 5+ year olds with pacifiers or bottles. I see it a lot here where I live and I just want to yank the things out of their mouths!! It's not good for the teeth!
A friend of mine is famous for letting her daughter say ';Do you not love me anymore Mommy?'; dictate her decisions. Her 6 year old is a master manipulator and gets away with anything by using that one simple sentence. It makes me crazy!
My biggest parenting pet peeve is the parents who think their child can do no wrong even if they see them committing a bad behavior right in front of them with no encouragement or provoking of any kind from another child yet she'll blame some random kid (namely, mine).
There is this mother at our story time that drives me batty!! Her daughter will be right in front of her ripping a page out of the book. The mother will look horrified and then say ';where did you learn that?!'; as if this child would NEVER be able to do such an evil act on her own?! HELLO?! She's a SPOILED BRAT!!! *%26amp;$**%%26amp;(#*%26amp;#$(%26amp;#()(@)*%26amp;#$(*+^%26amp;#(.
i was just going to say what you said thats a big pet peeve of mine and also i hate it when other parents tell you you should be doing something the way they do it for example i have a friend whose two and a half year old only drinks from a bottle and she told me she thinks my two and a half year old should be on a bottle and that im trying too make my daughter to adult. I just laughed at her.
Feeding young children easy junk stuff and letting them eat in their rooms while watching TV, instead of a decent healthy dinner with the rest of the family. I know this can't always be done, but I've been watching it be done 7 days/week with no excuse other than laziness! I raised 2 kids and held 1 or 2 jobs at any given time, but those things were very important.
at this point my biggest pet peeve is having other peoples views and opinions shoved down my throat, getting violation notices from yahoo (just got 2 more - woohoo), other than i'm pretty even keeled.
i also try and not interact w/parents who irk me w/their parenting style. may sound bad or harsh by why tempt me to open my big mouth when its not my business, you know?
I only read a few of the answers, but I'm saying all of the above! LOL! But seriously, probably the biggest one is anyone who is physically or verbally abusive. Yelling, screaming, put-downs, ';spanking';, yanking on kids, etc. Makes me crazy. I've dealt with more crap from kids than most of these people could even imagine, and never hit a one of them. My kids aren't perfect, but never, ever would I abuse one of them. I don't understand how you could say you love your kid and then hit or scream at them. Like it's going to do any good anyway.
It drives me nuts when parents think that everyone else should do the same things they do when it comes to their child. It's one thing to have your own opinion, but it's another to shove your beliefs down everyone else's throats and criticize them for the way they choose to do things. A common example is breastfeeding vs. formula feeding. Who cares who does what, as long as the child is being fed?!
Parents that don't watch their children. They let them play outside at 1 and 2 years old, unattended. Other parents and people in general have to rescue their children from the middle of the street, bring them back to their house after they have wandered off around the corner, etc.
Such a disgrace!!
One of mine is a parent with only kid tries to give a mom with multiple children advise. As a mom of three, I find this quite annoying, until you understand how the dynamics change when you have multiple kids please keep your ';helpful hints'; to yourself.
Gosh i hate that one too. My biggest one is when parents are always talking about how beautiful they're own kids are! ';Oh, Emily looked so good in this i swear she looks like a living doll!'; My older sister had this one friend who would go visit a new born baby in the hospital and say ';Isn't she precious? But no as precious as my daughter when she was that age..';
So struck on they're kids it makes me sick!
One of the biggest pet peeves that I have would be, other parents don't like the way you raise you kids, because they raise they're kids different and if you don't raise your kid the way they raise there's your a bad parent.
I tried to explain it the best I could :)
i 100% agree with you. my aunt will babysit her grandkids and sit on the couch the entire day,she says,you cant babysit children with them watching tv. so she lets the 3 year old watch spongebob from 7am til 8:30pm when they go to bed.
i also cant stand when people spank their kids. now when its a lil pat on the but or hand,ok, i plan on doing that. but i watched my aunt spank her grandkid hard enough to make my jaw drop. her daughter doesnt do anything about it. i flip out.
I HATE it when a father yells at his young son for crying. Makes me want to walk over to him and kick him in the balls and ask him if he feels like crying yet.
(I witnessed a father berate and punish his 3 yr old in a Bob Evans for crying when I was a teenager. I wanted to watch a truck run over him in the parking lot)
My pet peeve are parents that put their children in bubbles. Dont let them run in the yard, dont let them play ';tag'; because someone has to be ';it'; etc. Kids need to learn they might get hurt, sometimes they will lose and life isnt always fair.
Eat Funyuns.
I agree with you that screaming that was is unproductive. It absolutely did NOT teach the child anything.
The trouble is that I cannot control other parents, so, while I don't agree and sometimes find it really irritating, I cannot fix the problem.
cw
I hate when SAHMs and Breast feeders judge those who have to work or those who can't/won't breast feed....
I want to be a better parent and have no children experience so I watch other parents and take from them what I like, I try not to focus on the bad.
We have friends who yell and spank their toddler and preschooler for everything. The kids still keep on and keep on doing whatever it is the parents are trying to keep them from doing. Nothing against spanking here, I'm not trying to start a debate, BUT....If something isn't working... maybe try something else?? Just a thought. I ignore it at their house but it's annoying when they are yelling in mine (and their kids are destroying mine).
Parents who let their children run around in a restaurant screaming and yelling. Parents who would rather spend money on booze and stuff for them self's rather then buy their child clothes that they need (have a sister in law famous for that one).
Totally agree with yours! Another one is when I see like a 4 year old with a bink in their mouth or a 3 year old with a bottle! Oh, that kills me!!! There are so many more- I can't even list them! I'm getting like, angry even thinking about this! Lol!
I hate to see a parent give in to whining. This teaches them whining works to get them what they want. If my boy can't ask without whining, then the answer is definitely NO.
Its when the parents just call their childs name over and over again when the child is doing something wrong.
FFS the kid knows his/her name!!
I hate it when parents are too lazy to potty train (and will tell you they hate it) and there kids are 3 - 4 and still wearing diapers!
Forcing religion on to their kids. They have no sense of rationality to say what religion they are.
Same as you - when a parent yells and screams and then does nothing when the child ignores them.
not letting there child do anything and treating the child like a little baby when the child is a teen
moving out to the suburbs for the ';safer areas'; but then their children practically live under house arrest.
EDIT-LOL at Texas Momma. That Irks me too. I have a 5 yr old foster cousin who does that. Yet my aunt keeps buying those things for her. That little girl is sooooooo rotten.
Let me add some more.
A.Parents who provoke their kids to anger, then have the audacity to get mad when the child responds in defense.
B.parents who expect for their oldest child to be the parent and not just a role model. I'm sick of the eldest child being blamed for the wrong that the yonger children do. ';you older you supposed to teach them not to do that'; UMMM NO! THAT'S YOUR JOB.
C.parents who make a fuss out of every damn outfit that thier child selects and unless they(the parent) picked it out, it is not good enough.
D.parents who call their son a sissy if he's not into sports or if he cries about something
E.Guardians who act like if you don't brutally beat your child you are a bad parent ';in the good ol day.........'; yeah, I know your parents could lash your skin open and it be no problem, you could also be beaten until you piss on yourself.
F.Parents who make a huge issue when their child wears a sleeveless shirt. IT'S 90 ******* DEGRESS AND WE ARE AT A PARADE!
G.parents who constantly quote the bible saying it's wrong to dishonor kids, but yet, they don't even PRETEND to adhere to the quote that comes after it.(about being respectful to your kids and not provoking them to anger)
My big one is when parents will scream and yell at their children instead of getting off their rear end and doing something about it. A friend of mine is famous for this. She will yell at her 2 year old to quit doing something instead of redirecting her attention to something else. Drives me insane!What is your pet peeve about other parents?
My biggest pet peeve.....woman who take their young sons into the woman's restroom and let them pee on the toilet seat and don't wipe it up!!!!!
Also, parents who don't discipline their children. If your child is screaming in a restaraunt, grocery store, or any public place for that matter, they need a spanking or a serious talking to.What is your pet peeve about other parents?
Are you sure its kids pee tho!
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I have so many.
1. Parents who talk constantly about their children but never think to ask you about yours.
2. Parents who brag.
3. Parents who give unsolicited advice.
4. Parents who won't act like adults and instead let their kids run the show.
5. Parents who spoil their kids.
6. Parents who are only nice to you if they feel like your kid is in their kid's social ';league'; and ostracize every other parent whose kid may not be ';cool';
7. Parents who dress like their kids.
8. Parents who scream at soccer/basketball/baseball games and get all super-competitive and try to live through their kids.
9. Parents who won't ever volunteer for anything or donate anything or any time at school, leaving the rest of the parents to do everything.
10. Parents who let their kids swear, talk back, throw tantrums or generally behave like little beasts and think it's ';cute.';
But my biggest pet peeve is ... Parents who let their kids CONSTANTLY INTERRUPT when they are talking to another adult. How hard is it to tell your child, ';Mrs. So-and-so and I are talking. Don't interrupt. I'll be with you in a minute.';???
Parents who don't watch their kids in store. We live in a small town, and so many parents just let their kids run around the grocery store and play while they shop. I mean it is a small town, but its not that small! The other day I was picking up a few things and there was a kid that couldn't have been older than 2 sitting under one of the barbeque grills on display, no parents in sight. So I stopped and asked him if he needed help finding his mommy. He said yes so after glancing around the area I took him and asked one of the cashiers to page his mother, assuming she was in a panic. Well, she got up to the front of the store and looked at me and said ';Oh, was he trying to go out in the parking lot again?'; WHAT! I told her no, that he was playing all alone and figured she was looking for him. She said no, that she always just let her kids play by themselves when she shopped. I just couldn't believe what I was hearing. That's not even right at all! At least she put her kid in the basket and took him with her (I'm sure she could tell I wasn't going let her just leave him there.) Later I saw her in the check out line and with 2 other kids that looked about 4 and 6. And she just let all of them play while she was shopping. I mean I don't let my son even let go of my hand when we're in a store, much less just play by himself!
Sorry I just had to share that stroy because it just makes me sick to think of parents being so irresponsible with their children.......
That is really annoying. I cannot stand when parents do not agree on how to discipline their children. This causes so many ongoing problems.
I really cannot stand when parents think their children are oh-so amazing and the best child on earth. No children are perfect. Period. These who think their children are so perfect let their children get away with EVERYTHING! I have never seen children speak to their parents the way 'these' children do. And the annoying parents allow it so it only gets worse.
I hate it when parents with children older than mine will try to tell me my daughter is behind in her milestones, or try to compare with their children.
ex. I was talking to my friend the other day about how my daughter is starting to be more steady walking now and she says ';she must be behind my son was walking steady at 11 months'; X_x
Oh boy that is a peeve of mine as well!
I cannot stand it when I see 3, 4, 5+ year olds with pacifiers or bottles. I see it a lot here where I live and I just want to yank the things out of their mouths!! It's not good for the teeth!
A friend of mine is famous for letting her daughter say ';Do you not love me anymore Mommy?'; dictate her decisions. Her 6 year old is a master manipulator and gets away with anything by using that one simple sentence. It makes me crazy!
My biggest parenting pet peeve is the parents who think their child can do no wrong even if they see them committing a bad behavior right in front of them with no encouragement or provoking of any kind from another child yet she'll blame some random kid (namely, mine).
There is this mother at our story time that drives me batty!! Her daughter will be right in front of her ripping a page out of the book. The mother will look horrified and then say ';where did you learn that?!'; as if this child would NEVER be able to do such an evil act on her own?! HELLO?! She's a SPOILED BRAT!!! *%26amp;$**%%26amp;(#*%26amp;#$(%26amp;#()(@)*%26amp;#$(*+^%26amp;#(.
i was just going to say what you said thats a big pet peeve of mine and also i hate it when other parents tell you you should be doing something the way they do it for example i have a friend whose two and a half year old only drinks from a bottle and she told me she thinks my two and a half year old should be on a bottle and that im trying too make my daughter to adult. I just laughed at her.
Feeding young children easy junk stuff and letting them eat in their rooms while watching TV, instead of a decent healthy dinner with the rest of the family. I know this can't always be done, but I've been watching it be done 7 days/week with no excuse other than laziness! I raised 2 kids and held 1 or 2 jobs at any given time, but those things were very important.
at this point my biggest pet peeve is having other peoples views and opinions shoved down my throat, getting violation notices from yahoo (just got 2 more - woohoo), other than i'm pretty even keeled.
i also try and not interact w/parents who irk me w/their parenting style. may sound bad or harsh by why tempt me to open my big mouth when its not my business, you know?
I only read a few of the answers, but I'm saying all of the above! LOL! But seriously, probably the biggest one is anyone who is physically or verbally abusive. Yelling, screaming, put-downs, ';spanking';, yanking on kids, etc. Makes me crazy. I've dealt with more crap from kids than most of these people could even imagine, and never hit a one of them. My kids aren't perfect, but never, ever would I abuse one of them. I don't understand how you could say you love your kid and then hit or scream at them. Like it's going to do any good anyway.
It drives me nuts when parents think that everyone else should do the same things they do when it comes to their child. It's one thing to have your own opinion, but it's another to shove your beliefs down everyone else's throats and criticize them for the way they choose to do things. A common example is breastfeeding vs. formula feeding. Who cares who does what, as long as the child is being fed?!
Parents that don't watch their children. They let them play outside at 1 and 2 years old, unattended. Other parents and people in general have to rescue their children from the middle of the street, bring them back to their house after they have wandered off around the corner, etc.
Such a disgrace!!
One of mine is a parent with only kid tries to give a mom with multiple children advise. As a mom of three, I find this quite annoying, until you understand how the dynamics change when you have multiple kids please keep your ';helpful hints'; to yourself.
Gosh i hate that one too. My biggest one is when parents are always talking about how beautiful they're own kids are! ';Oh, Emily looked so good in this i swear she looks like a living doll!'; My older sister had this one friend who would go visit a new born baby in the hospital and say ';Isn't she precious? But no as precious as my daughter when she was that age..';
So struck on they're kids it makes me sick!
One of the biggest pet peeves that I have would be, other parents don't like the way you raise you kids, because they raise they're kids different and if you don't raise your kid the way they raise there's your a bad parent.
I tried to explain it the best I could :)
i 100% agree with you. my aunt will babysit her grandkids and sit on the couch the entire day,she says,you cant babysit children with them watching tv. so she lets the 3 year old watch spongebob from 7am til 8:30pm when they go to bed.
i also cant stand when people spank their kids. now when its a lil pat on the but or hand,ok, i plan on doing that. but i watched my aunt spank her grandkid hard enough to make my jaw drop. her daughter doesnt do anything about it. i flip out.
I HATE it when a father yells at his young son for crying. Makes me want to walk over to him and kick him in the balls and ask him if he feels like crying yet.
(I witnessed a father berate and punish his 3 yr old in a Bob Evans for crying when I was a teenager. I wanted to watch a truck run over him in the parking lot)
My pet peeve are parents that put their children in bubbles. Dont let them run in the yard, dont let them play ';tag'; because someone has to be ';it'; etc. Kids need to learn they might get hurt, sometimes they will lose and life isnt always fair.
Eat Funyuns.
I agree with you that screaming that was is unproductive. It absolutely did NOT teach the child anything.
The trouble is that I cannot control other parents, so, while I don't agree and sometimes find it really irritating, I cannot fix the problem.
cw
I hate when SAHMs and Breast feeders judge those who have to work or those who can't/won't breast feed....
I want to be a better parent and have no children experience so I watch other parents and take from them what I like, I try not to focus on the bad.
We have friends who yell and spank their toddler and preschooler for everything. The kids still keep on and keep on doing whatever it is the parents are trying to keep them from doing. Nothing against spanking here, I'm not trying to start a debate, BUT....If something isn't working... maybe try something else?? Just a thought. I ignore it at their house but it's annoying when they are yelling in mine (and their kids are destroying mine).
Parents who let their children run around in a restaurant screaming and yelling. Parents who would rather spend money on booze and stuff for them self's rather then buy their child clothes that they need (have a sister in law famous for that one).
Totally agree with yours! Another one is when I see like a 4 year old with a bink in their mouth or a 3 year old with a bottle! Oh, that kills me!!! There are so many more- I can't even list them! I'm getting like, angry even thinking about this! Lol!
I hate to see a parent give in to whining. This teaches them whining works to get them what they want. If my boy can't ask without whining, then the answer is definitely NO.
Its when the parents just call their childs name over and over again when the child is doing something wrong.
FFS the kid knows his/her name!!
I hate it when parents are too lazy to potty train (and will tell you they hate it) and there kids are 3 - 4 and still wearing diapers!
Forcing religion on to their kids. They have no sense of rationality to say what religion they are.
Same as you - when a parent yells and screams and then does nothing when the child ignores them.
not letting there child do anything and treating the child like a little baby when the child is a teen
moving out to the suburbs for the ';safer areas'; but then their children practically live under house arrest.
EDIT-LOL at Texas Momma. That Irks me too. I have a 5 yr old foster cousin who does that. Yet my aunt keeps buying those things for her. That little girl is sooooooo rotten.
Let me add some more.
A.Parents who provoke their kids to anger, then have the audacity to get mad when the child responds in defense.
B.parents who expect for their oldest child to be the parent and not just a role model. I'm sick of the eldest child being blamed for the wrong that the yonger children do. ';you older you supposed to teach them not to do that'; UMMM NO! THAT'S YOUR JOB.
C.parents who make a fuss out of every damn outfit that thier child selects and unless they(the parent) picked it out, it is not good enough.
D.parents who call their son a sissy if he's not into sports or if he cries about something
E.Guardians who act like if you don't brutally beat your child you are a bad parent ';in the good ol day.........'; yeah, I know your parents could lash your skin open and it be no problem, you could also be beaten until you piss on yourself.
F.Parents who make a huge issue when their child wears a sleeveless shirt. IT'S 90 ******* DEGRESS AND WE ARE AT A PARADE!
G.parents who constantly quote the bible saying it's wrong to dishonor kids, but yet, they don't even PRETEND to adhere to the quote that comes after it.(about being respectful to your kids and not provoking them to anger)
How do you become emancipated from your parents in NY?
I am 16 years old. I have a part time job and make over $15,000 a year. I am desperate to get away from my parents because my dad is an *** and my mom is psychotic and i do not want to suffer from the emotional abuse. Can someone please tell me how i become the closest thing to emancipated in NY? Btw, i still want to stay in school and i will have another place to live.How do you become emancipated from your parents in NY?
New York Emancipation Law
It is my understanding that New York does not have a law which provides for emancipation. (That is, unlike in most states, there is no mechanism by which a minor can go to court and formally petition to be declared an emancipated minor.) However, it is also my understanding that New York courts will recognize the status of an emancipated minor, assuming that the minor meets the essential elements of being emancipated.
Those required elements are:
* The minor must be aged 16 or older;
* The minor must reside independently of his or her parents;
* The minor must be self supporting (although public assistance or court-ordered child support payments made to the minor would not disqualify the minor from being recognized as emancipated);
* The minor must not be in need of or receipt of foster care; and
* The minor must be living beyond the custody and control of his or her parents.
New York Emancipation Law
It is my understanding that New York does not have a law which provides for emancipation. (That is, unlike in most states, there is no mechanism by which a minor can go to court and formally petition to be declared an emancipated minor.) However, it is also my understanding that New York courts will recognize the status of an emancipated minor, assuming that the minor meets the essential elements of being emancipated.
Those required elements are:
* The minor must be aged 16 or older;
* The minor must reside independently of his or her parents;
* The minor must be self supporting (although public assistance or court-ordered child support payments made to the minor would not disqualify the minor from being recognized as emancipated);
* The minor must not be in need of or receipt of foster care; and
* The minor must be living beyond the custody and control of his or her parents.
What would you do differently from your parents?
My parents did not try to encourage me to be involved in various experiences that are important for growth. Example Girl Scouts. I feel that is important for a child to try many things. That is what shapes them as adults. I wanted to be in band, but my parents couldn't afford it. Who knows If I would have been given the chance, I might have achieved great things. So what are your thoughts?What would you do differently from your parents?
Not be an alcoholic. Keep my marriage together.What would you do differently from your parents?
Encourage your kids to try things but be careful that you don't push them into something they are doing just to please you. If money is an issue, especially with band, most schools or at least band programs have assistance available, sometimes even local churches and adult organizations will kick in to get an instrument or at least help with rental fees. (Lions club and some sororities from colleges will help sometimes for the publicity of it.)
I raised 5 kids, 2 were mine, 3 were my husbands, they were 2-8 years old when we married and the ex's stayed out of the way. We realized that each child is different and that we needed to guide them carefully but not push. (There is a fine line between the 2 sometimes.)
My mom was very involved with my school work or school functions, but never did fun stuff with me like go swimming (God forbid her hair would get wet) or ride roller coasters with me (it might blow her hair), or go hiking, etc. My dad did all those things with me, but sometimes I wish my mom would have too. I am definitley closer to my dad than my mom now.
My daughter is 5 and so far, I think I'm doing a good job of doing things with her, except there have been times I wouldn't get in the pool b/c it was too cold! And I do feel bad about those times. I hope to always be involved in her activities and doing different adventures with her. I'm taking her to the zoo this week for a ';girl's day';! Can't wait!
My daughters are now teenagers (one is in college, the other in high school) and I always made sure that they were exposed to all sorts of activities. We did it all - at least once. Soccer, gymnastics, dance, tennis, art classes...it seems like I drove all over town for many years.
In the end, I encouraged them to each pick one activity to concentrate on. My older daughter played tennis for several years and then when she hit 16, she started working part time, along with many school activities. Her younger sister was and still is a dancer. She may never be a prima ballerina or dance with the NYC Ballet, but she loves to dance, student teaches at her dance school, wants to teach dance one day...dance is her life.
My dream was to go to art school but my parents couldn't afford it and even if they found a school, I might not have been able to get there since my mom didn't drive. I turned out okay in spite of it and I can still draw a bit, but I am not destined to be an artist. All in all, sure, things could have been different, but I am fairly happy with the way my life turned out. It could have been a lot worse.
I will love more,laugh more,encourage more,listen more and be home more...Thats the things i lacked from my parents growing up...It is important for children to be active in things while growing up..If you are older you can still achieve great things..I went on to take piano lessons..i learned how to play the guitar and i went to college after dropping out of school and getting my GED...Love yourself and if there is something you want to do DO IT! Good luck...
-treat my children the same and fairly--appropriately for their age!
-allow my children to have separate friends and activities
-encourage my children to pursue what THEY are interested in
-encourage and assist my children in being the best students they can be
-put their needs before my own
-overestimate them
-trust that i raised them in a way that they can function in social situations without me
-let them choose their friends and activities *within reason*
-and gosh darnit--i WILL let them dress how they want instead of choosing all their clothes and dressing them like old people!! %26lt;3
I do almost everything different
My mother was very abusive in every way... I won't get into details..but it was not fun.
My goal in life...to stop the cycle of abuse. It ends with me. My son will never know what it is like to have the one who is suppose to protect and love him betray him. And for my adopted girls who came from abusive homes.. I want then to sleep at night knowing the are now loved and safe.
Everything else is gravy.
Let ma kids have more freedom :o) a wouldnt force em into stupid stuff like girl scouts. My mam n dad give me loadsss of freedom n i love it buttt i have to be home for 10:30 :| its rather shockin butt i am the youngest and the only girl and my dad is very over protective buh at least he cares :o) xoxox
The easier ones are not to spank and to try to give equal rules for the siblings.
Almost everything else is easier said than done.
my children and family attend church. I yell less then my mother. Im going to teach my kids how to match their clothes, do their hair , etc
Not be an alcoholic. Keep my marriage together.What would you do differently from your parents?
Encourage your kids to try things but be careful that you don't push them into something they are doing just to please you. If money is an issue, especially with band, most schools or at least band programs have assistance available, sometimes even local churches and adult organizations will kick in to get an instrument or at least help with rental fees. (Lions club and some sororities from colleges will help sometimes for the publicity of it.)
I raised 5 kids, 2 were mine, 3 were my husbands, they were 2-8 years old when we married and the ex's stayed out of the way. We realized that each child is different and that we needed to guide them carefully but not push. (There is a fine line between the 2 sometimes.)
My mom was very involved with my school work or school functions, but never did fun stuff with me like go swimming (God forbid her hair would get wet) or ride roller coasters with me (it might blow her hair), or go hiking, etc. My dad did all those things with me, but sometimes I wish my mom would have too. I am definitley closer to my dad than my mom now.
My daughter is 5 and so far, I think I'm doing a good job of doing things with her, except there have been times I wouldn't get in the pool b/c it was too cold! And I do feel bad about those times. I hope to always be involved in her activities and doing different adventures with her. I'm taking her to the zoo this week for a ';girl's day';! Can't wait!
My daughters are now teenagers (one is in college, the other in high school) and I always made sure that they were exposed to all sorts of activities. We did it all - at least once. Soccer, gymnastics, dance, tennis, art classes...it seems like I drove all over town for many years.
In the end, I encouraged them to each pick one activity to concentrate on. My older daughter played tennis for several years and then when she hit 16, she started working part time, along with many school activities. Her younger sister was and still is a dancer. She may never be a prima ballerina or dance with the NYC Ballet, but she loves to dance, student teaches at her dance school, wants to teach dance one day...dance is her life.
My dream was to go to art school but my parents couldn't afford it and even if they found a school, I might not have been able to get there since my mom didn't drive. I turned out okay in spite of it and I can still draw a bit, but I am not destined to be an artist. All in all, sure, things could have been different, but I am fairly happy with the way my life turned out. It could have been a lot worse.
I will love more,laugh more,encourage more,listen more and be home more...Thats the things i lacked from my parents growing up...It is important for children to be active in things while growing up..If you are older you can still achieve great things..I went on to take piano lessons..i learned how to play the guitar and i went to college after dropping out of school and getting my GED...Love yourself and if there is something you want to do DO IT! Good luck...
-treat my children the same and fairly--appropriately for their age!
-allow my children to have separate friends and activities
-encourage my children to pursue what THEY are interested in
-encourage and assist my children in being the best students they can be
-put their needs before my own
-overestimate them
-trust that i raised them in a way that they can function in social situations without me
-let them choose their friends and activities *within reason*
-and gosh darnit--i WILL let them dress how they want instead of choosing all their clothes and dressing them like old people!! %26lt;3
I do almost everything different
My mother was very abusive in every way... I won't get into details..but it was not fun.
My goal in life...to stop the cycle of abuse. It ends with me. My son will never know what it is like to have the one who is suppose to protect and love him betray him. And for my adopted girls who came from abusive homes.. I want then to sleep at night knowing the are now loved and safe.
Everything else is gravy.
Let ma kids have more freedom :o) a wouldnt force em into stupid stuff like girl scouts. My mam n dad give me loadsss of freedom n i love it buttt i have to be home for 10:30 :| its rather shockin butt i am the youngest and the only girl and my dad is very over protective buh at least he cares :o) xoxox
The easier ones are not to spank and to try to give equal rules for the siblings.
Almost everything else is easier said than done.
my children and family attend church. I yell less then my mother. Im going to teach my kids how to match their clothes, do their hair , etc
How do I find out , if my parents claim me as dependent? Who gave them the right ?
I want to file my ';so called '; tax returns this year for the ALMIGHTY IRS.
How am I supposed to find out if i am dependent or Not?
( other than asking them , because they never tell the truth )How do I find out , if my parents claim me as dependent? Who gave them the right ?
If you are under age 19, or under 24 and were a full time student for part of any 5 months of the year, AND
you lived with your parents for over half the year, AND
you didn't provide over half of your own support (and your share of the cost of the household while you lived there is part of your support)
then they can claim you as a dependent. If they can, even if for some reason they don't, you are not allowed to claim yourself.
Who gave them the right? The US Congress.
Cut yourself a break for 2008. Move out sometime in the next couple months on your own, and don't take any money from your parents this year. Support yourself. Then next year when tax time comes around, there won't be a question, you can claim yourself.How do I find out , if my parents claim me as dependent? Who gave them the right ?
If, as Bostonia gave you the legal reasons why your parents can and probably do claim you as a dependent is applicable, it does not mean that you cannot file a tax return and get some of your federal income tax that was withheld from your paycheck back as a refund. You can still file a return, just make sure that you mark the box that says that someone else can claim you on their tax return when you do yours. You'll get back some of what you paid in to federal income tax depending on your income and how much you had withheld. It's really only fair that your parents get to claim you on their taxes because it really does take more than they get as a deduction for you to pay for more than half of your living expenses. You'll understand better when you have teenage children or one in college of your own. Give them a break. It won't be that much longer and you'll WISH that you still had them supporting you instead of having to pay all of your own living expenses.
over 18 and live on own?
they can't claim u.
in full time school at home or college.
they can claim u.
else wise just file for ur self no problem.
The easiest way is to simply ask them. The law gives them the right.
The rules for them to claim you are pretty simple so if you don't trust their answer, here's what they are.
If you are:
Under age 19 OR
Under age 24 and a full-time student for more than 5 full months out of the year OR
Are any age and permanently and totally disabled AND
You lived in their home for 6 months or more excluding temporary absences for school, medical care or vacations AND
You did not provide more than half of your OWN support, THEN
They may claim you as a dependent. If then can claim you as a dependent then you may NOT claim your personal exemption on your tax return when you file. In fact, if they can claim you and don't claim you for whatever reason, you STILL cannot claim your personal exemption.
Now you know.
If they claimed you and they did not qualify to claim you then you can file a paper return and the irs will settle it. If they claimed you appropiately still you can file as a dependent.
Always claim yourself in my opinion. If you still live with your parents they most likely claim you. It doesnt effect your taxes if they claim you.
How am I supposed to find out if i am dependent or Not?
( other than asking them , because they never tell the truth )How do I find out , if my parents claim me as dependent? Who gave them the right ?
If you are under age 19, or under 24 and were a full time student for part of any 5 months of the year, AND
you lived with your parents for over half the year, AND
you didn't provide over half of your own support (and your share of the cost of the household while you lived there is part of your support)
then they can claim you as a dependent. If they can, even if for some reason they don't, you are not allowed to claim yourself.
Who gave them the right? The US Congress.
Cut yourself a break for 2008. Move out sometime in the next couple months on your own, and don't take any money from your parents this year. Support yourself. Then next year when tax time comes around, there won't be a question, you can claim yourself.How do I find out , if my parents claim me as dependent? Who gave them the right ?
If, as Bostonia gave you the legal reasons why your parents can and probably do claim you as a dependent is applicable, it does not mean that you cannot file a tax return and get some of your federal income tax that was withheld from your paycheck back as a refund. You can still file a return, just make sure that you mark the box that says that someone else can claim you on their tax return when you do yours. You'll get back some of what you paid in to federal income tax depending on your income and how much you had withheld. It's really only fair that your parents get to claim you on their taxes because it really does take more than they get as a deduction for you to pay for more than half of your living expenses. You'll understand better when you have teenage children or one in college of your own. Give them a break. It won't be that much longer and you'll WISH that you still had them supporting you instead of having to pay all of your own living expenses.
over 18 and live on own?
they can't claim u.
in full time school at home or college.
they can claim u.
else wise just file for ur self no problem.
The easiest way is to simply ask them. The law gives them the right.
The rules for them to claim you are pretty simple so if you don't trust their answer, here's what they are.
If you are:
Under age 19 OR
Under age 24 and a full-time student for more than 5 full months out of the year OR
Are any age and permanently and totally disabled AND
You lived in their home for 6 months or more excluding temporary absences for school, medical care or vacations AND
You did not provide more than half of your OWN support, THEN
They may claim you as a dependent. If then can claim you as a dependent then you may NOT claim your personal exemption on your tax return when you file. In fact, if they can claim you and don't claim you for whatever reason, you STILL cannot claim your personal exemption.
Now you know.
If they claimed you and they did not qualify to claim you then you can file a paper return and the irs will settle it. If they claimed you appropiately still you can file as a dependent.
Always claim yourself in my opinion. If you still live with your parents they most likely claim you. It doesnt effect your taxes if they claim you.
What holiday tradition are you carrying on with your children that you got from your parents?
With my kids, we are going to decorate the tree together while listening to christmas carols, help make christmas candy, and read the story of Jesus birth on Christmas eve.
It doesnt matter what religon you practice, id love to hear about your traditions!What holiday tradition are you carrying on with your children that you got from your parents?
These have been SO nice to read! I love the idea of new pyjamas every Christmas!
We're Ukrainian, so we celebrate both Christmases - in different ways I suppose. Growing up my parents kind of did the same.
We always decorate the house together a few weeks before Christmas, and put up the real tree and decorate it. We hang our tree from the ceiling, which is an old tradition of my husband's from Eastern Europe, when there were lots of small kids.
Our celebration is Christmas Eve. Tradition is to have 12 meatless dishes, which we don't do - we just have the main foods - kutia, a dish of boiled wheet, poppyseed and nuts, sweetened with honey and sugar; holubtsi (cabbage rolls); pyrohy (boiled dumplings with potato); baked fish with potatoes and rice; a kolach (round braided bread, with candle to symbolize Christ); and some special dainties.
We sing our prayer before supper. Then my husband gives a special greeting in his language (close to Ukrainian, but of his tradition). After we eat, we sing again, then go to the living room to sing some more carols - both Ukrainian and English. Then we open gifts.
When we were growing up, we would just visit as a family, then go to church. But with my husband's traditions being a bit different, other families from his culture in our city come 'caroling' Christmas Eve, before we got to Liturgy. Parents with their kids go around to each other's homes to sing, then the kids get small gifts and you have a bit of a visit. So one of the parents stays home to host the others when they come around. It's hectic, but fun!
So we do this big celebration Christmas Eve on Dec. 24, then because we also follow the Julian calendar, we just have the Holy Supper again on January 6. Usually, will give our son another gift then, too!What holiday tradition are you carrying on with your children that you got from your parents?
I am not a devout christian, but believe in the christian values, and teach my children that christmas is about the birth of jesus.
As well as sending out xmas cards to families and neighbours etc, we also get a birthday card every year, 'for baby jesus' my 3 year old says.
When i was younger, my parents never really made a big deal out of xmas, as they were very poor, and all xmas meant to them was financial worrys. i too have financial worries, but my children get about 10 presents each, no more than that.
we do the same as you, listen to xmas carols while putting up the tree and decorating it, but i also have a glass of wine while doing it, and i let the kids have a very weak shandy...then it starts to feel like christmas.
I cant wait!!!
with my kids we too are putting up our tree togther while we let xmas old movies play in the back round.we do ginger bread xmas houses, and bake eather cookies or brownies.
Every Christmas growing up Christmas Eve my parents would give us kids a new ordament with the year and our names on them. We'd put them on the tree and go to bed. To this day they are soo special to me and I started giving it to my kids to each year. It's wonderful
I wanted to teach my daughter about the spirit of giving, so we are doing the same thing we used to do in my family. During the month of December, my daughter has been saving her money (allowance that I give her for putting her toys away) and I have been saving mine, and before Christmas Eve we'll go to the market, buy some food, and make a nice dinner for about 3 needy families that we have met. I would like for her to learn what my mother always told my brothers and I: ';you can give your money, but the most precious thing you can give is your time.';
Hi, Merry Chrismas! Our family Christmas traditions we have are that we drive around Christmas Eve looking at christmas lights while listening to chrismtas songs. Then we go home %26amp; open our chrismas eve Pajamas that Mom buys us every year. My moms %26amp; mine match %26amp; my brothers %26amp; dads match too. We go to midnight mass at church on Christmas Eve. Chrismtas morning Mom %26amp; I get up %26amp; cook a big breakfast for the family %26amp; we eat %26amp; then open gifts.
Ive been married 3 years %26amp; we are expecting our first baby in May! I will definitly pass down the traditions to my lil one. And I hope to make some new ones ourselves that he can take into his family.
Happy Holidays!!!
Along with some of the typical traditions, I have revived my family's tradition of having Pillsbury Orange Rolls for breakfast on Christmas day!
My mom gets new pj's for all the grandkids to wear x-mas eve. Also I bring my daughter to my aunt's house x-mas eve. Every year she throws a party and it's the one time we are promised to see all of my mom's relatives under the same roof, so I really look forward to that.
Once she gets older I'd like to also drive around and look at all the houses that are decorated, my mom used to do that with us and I always enjoyed it.
I also started my own tradition of getting a picture of me and my daughter infront of the tree every x-mas eve. Just something small I can look back on every year and see how much she has grown.
My son gets to hear me sing Christmas music all season... he's not here yet, but next year he'll help us decorate the tree, and make cookies. We'll also pass on the tradition of celebrating Christmas on Jan. 7th (Daddy's Orthodox)
I know this sounds silly, but we all wear new pajamas on Christmas eve.
Nothing fancy. I take the kids to Walmart and let them pick out a pair of pj's. Then I pick out a pair for myself and my husband. I normally get him a pair of comfy pants and a regular t-shirt that matches.
We normally do this about a week or so before Christmas, so this annual event will happen soon.
It doesnt matter what religon you practice, id love to hear about your traditions!What holiday tradition are you carrying on with your children that you got from your parents?
These have been SO nice to read! I love the idea of new pyjamas every Christmas!
We're Ukrainian, so we celebrate both Christmases - in different ways I suppose. Growing up my parents kind of did the same.
We always decorate the house together a few weeks before Christmas, and put up the real tree and decorate it. We hang our tree from the ceiling, which is an old tradition of my husband's from Eastern Europe, when there were lots of small kids.
Our celebration is Christmas Eve. Tradition is to have 12 meatless dishes, which we don't do - we just have the main foods - kutia, a dish of boiled wheet, poppyseed and nuts, sweetened with honey and sugar; holubtsi (cabbage rolls); pyrohy (boiled dumplings with potato); baked fish with potatoes and rice; a kolach (round braided bread, with candle to symbolize Christ); and some special dainties.
We sing our prayer before supper. Then my husband gives a special greeting in his language (close to Ukrainian, but of his tradition). After we eat, we sing again, then go to the living room to sing some more carols - both Ukrainian and English. Then we open gifts.
When we were growing up, we would just visit as a family, then go to church. But with my husband's traditions being a bit different, other families from his culture in our city come 'caroling' Christmas Eve, before we got to Liturgy. Parents with their kids go around to each other's homes to sing, then the kids get small gifts and you have a bit of a visit. So one of the parents stays home to host the others when they come around. It's hectic, but fun!
So we do this big celebration Christmas Eve on Dec. 24, then because we also follow the Julian calendar, we just have the Holy Supper again on January 6. Usually, will give our son another gift then, too!What holiday tradition are you carrying on with your children that you got from your parents?
I am not a devout christian, but believe in the christian values, and teach my children that christmas is about the birth of jesus.
As well as sending out xmas cards to families and neighbours etc, we also get a birthday card every year, 'for baby jesus' my 3 year old says.
When i was younger, my parents never really made a big deal out of xmas, as they were very poor, and all xmas meant to them was financial worrys. i too have financial worries, but my children get about 10 presents each, no more than that.
we do the same as you, listen to xmas carols while putting up the tree and decorating it, but i also have a glass of wine while doing it, and i let the kids have a very weak shandy...then it starts to feel like christmas.
I cant wait!!!
with my kids we too are putting up our tree togther while we let xmas old movies play in the back round.we do ginger bread xmas houses, and bake eather cookies or brownies.
Every Christmas growing up Christmas Eve my parents would give us kids a new ordament with the year and our names on them. We'd put them on the tree and go to bed. To this day they are soo special to me and I started giving it to my kids to each year. It's wonderful
I wanted to teach my daughter about the spirit of giving, so we are doing the same thing we used to do in my family. During the month of December, my daughter has been saving her money (allowance that I give her for putting her toys away) and I have been saving mine, and before Christmas Eve we'll go to the market, buy some food, and make a nice dinner for about 3 needy families that we have met. I would like for her to learn what my mother always told my brothers and I: ';you can give your money, but the most precious thing you can give is your time.';
Hi, Merry Chrismas! Our family Christmas traditions we have are that we drive around Christmas Eve looking at christmas lights while listening to chrismtas songs. Then we go home %26amp; open our chrismas eve Pajamas that Mom buys us every year. My moms %26amp; mine match %26amp; my brothers %26amp; dads match too. We go to midnight mass at church on Christmas Eve. Chrismtas morning Mom %26amp; I get up %26amp; cook a big breakfast for the family %26amp; we eat %26amp; then open gifts.
Ive been married 3 years %26amp; we are expecting our first baby in May! I will definitly pass down the traditions to my lil one. And I hope to make some new ones ourselves that he can take into his family.
Happy Holidays!!!
Along with some of the typical traditions, I have revived my family's tradition of having Pillsbury Orange Rolls for breakfast on Christmas day!
My mom gets new pj's for all the grandkids to wear x-mas eve. Also I bring my daughter to my aunt's house x-mas eve. Every year she throws a party and it's the one time we are promised to see all of my mom's relatives under the same roof, so I really look forward to that.
Once she gets older I'd like to also drive around and look at all the houses that are decorated, my mom used to do that with us and I always enjoyed it.
I also started my own tradition of getting a picture of me and my daughter infront of the tree every x-mas eve. Just something small I can look back on every year and see how much she has grown.
My son gets to hear me sing Christmas music all season... he's not here yet, but next year he'll help us decorate the tree, and make cookies. We'll also pass on the tradition of celebrating Christmas on Jan. 7th (Daddy's Orthodox)
I know this sounds silly, but we all wear new pajamas on Christmas eve.
Nothing fancy. I take the kids to Walmart and let them pick out a pair of pj's. Then I pick out a pair for myself and my husband. I normally get him a pair of comfy pants and a regular t-shirt that matches.
We normally do this about a week or so before Christmas, so this annual event will happen soon.
Why does Amy Winehouse and Blake Fielders parents choose to use the National Newspapers to pass messages?
It seems like these sets of parents spend more time in the media to discuss their family problems than actually talking to each other.
They must have so much class airing their dirty laundry in public.Why does Amy Winehouse and Blake Fielders parents choose to use the National Newspapers to pass messages?
I imagine it's more that hacks from the national press come to them rather than vice versa.Why does Amy Winehouse and Blake Fielders parents choose to use the National Newspapers to pass messages?
i don't know
i wondered the same thing
can't they just speak to one another? or are they as attention seeking as their offspring...?
Personally, I would never air my families dirty laundry to anyone, even a neighbour let alone mass media. I think they want their 15 minutes of fame and if they have to get it by making a mockery of their daughters addiction and illness then that is just sad. I would never do that to my children.
why not the civil fielders cannot get to see their son often %26amp; wino's parents cannot have a conversation with her because she is to spaced to understand and she is so up herself she still reads the trash written.
They've got nothing too lose and everything to gain. Everyone knows Amys business as she was filmed smoking a crack pipe. and Blake is in prison, perhaps this is the only to get their message accross.
http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/2701_amy鈥?/a>
Not sure what Blake's mother thinks she is achieving by discussing her daughter in law in public like that, but anyone who knows Amy's dad Mitch knows he is totally devoted to his daughter, he and his estranged wife love Amy so much they are trying anything to get through to her. Desperate times call for desperate measures.
I think if it wasn't for all her antics and problems she would have been a one hit wonder .Don't think there's any real talent at all there.
they won't listen to their parents.jabbawockeez mask
They must have so much class airing their dirty laundry in public.Why does Amy Winehouse and Blake Fielders parents choose to use the National Newspapers to pass messages?
I imagine it's more that hacks from the national press come to them rather than vice versa.Why does Amy Winehouse and Blake Fielders parents choose to use the National Newspapers to pass messages?
i don't know
i wondered the same thing
can't they just speak to one another? or are they as attention seeking as their offspring...?
Personally, I would never air my families dirty laundry to anyone, even a neighbour let alone mass media. I think they want their 15 minutes of fame and if they have to get it by making a mockery of their daughters addiction and illness then that is just sad. I would never do that to my children.
why not the civil fielders cannot get to see their son often %26amp; wino's parents cannot have a conversation with her because she is to spaced to understand and she is so up herself she still reads the trash written.
They've got nothing too lose and everything to gain. Everyone knows Amys business as she was filmed smoking a crack pipe. and Blake is in prison, perhaps this is the only to get their message accross.
http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/2701_amy鈥?/a>
Not sure what Blake's mother thinks she is achieving by discussing her daughter in law in public like that, but anyone who knows Amy's dad Mitch knows he is totally devoted to his daughter, he and his estranged wife love Amy so much they are trying anything to get through to her. Desperate times call for desperate measures.
I think if it wasn't for all her antics and problems she would have been a one hit wonder .Don't think there's any real talent at all there.
they won't listen to their parents.
What is the one thing you would like to be able to honestly tell a parent of one of your students?
Not in a jerky sort of way, but actual concerns you have to sugar-coat because of the fact that it's a child's parent.
Write it here.What is the one thing you would like to be able to honestly tell a parent of one of your students?
I would love to be able to say (and would if I could think of a way not to sugar-coat it but to say it tactfully or at least in a way that wouldn't devastate the parents) that their child is struggling academically because they're just not all that smart. I know that sounds awful but I had two students one year who went through the child-study process to see if they qualified for special education. Both had been held back (one twice so she was 13 in the fifth-grade), failing academically, frustrated parents and frustrated teacher. Neither qualified for anything except help with speech (because they were found to be in the bottom one percent of receptive language). Their parents, I think, wanted them to qualify for special education in the hopes that this would be the educational equivalent of a diagnoses that would proceed to the special education cure that would ensure their child would be normal. Both also were found to have IQs between 70 and 75. Not low enough to receive services for mental retardation but it made it really hard for them to do well in a normal classroom and almost impossible to qualify for special education.What is the one thing you would like to be able to honestly tell a parent of one of your students?
Your child isn't telling you the whole truth. I have to say this kindly to parents all the time (I'm a college Dean, so I'm saying this about the students of the faculty in my college when parents call to complain about a faculty member, after I have investigated the circumstances), and most parents don't react well to it, but their kids have told them that their teacher was utterly unfair, never told them that something was going to be included on the test, or that the paper was supposed to take a certain form, when it was all clearly on the syllabus. The students whose parents I have to tell this to rarely admit that they haven't been to class in months, or that they used their textbook money to go out drinking, or that the reason they are failing the class was NOT because the teacher unfairly didn't like one of their papers, but that they had failed five tests before that. Many parents choose to immediately believe their sons or daughters and to take their sides against an instructor, when in very clear fact the child was in the wrong.
I'm not a parent or a teacher but I think that it's insane that teacher's can't be honest to parents about their kids because their afraid of getting sued or something. I mean they shouldn't be able to say that little Johnny is a dipshit but they shouldn't have to sugar coat the fact that he's not the brightest crayon in the box and needs remedial classes (or whatever the problem is, especially if it's behavioral).
I had a very hard time with a student once actually letting his parents know the truth. I was teaching year 2 in a s private school in Uganda (UK system) and Roland had already been held back a year after being transferred from another Kampalan school. He was transferred because they had no facilities for special needs. I had to tell his parents at the end of the year that he had special needs. His parents thought (hoped) he was just shy, but he was being overtaken ';academically'; by his 3 year old brother. I had to tell them this. It was awful. But they had to know the truth, it was not because he was shy. He had almost no working memory, so he couldn't remember the numbers up to ten, let alone the alphabet. He was nearly 8 at this point.
In the end I had to burst their ballooon and just tell the truth. Of course by then we had a structure for his education in the next school year. Not easy, but I will never lie.
Stop babying your child! She won't do her work without whining and asking for help every 5 seconds! She CAN do the work, I've seen her do it! But she acts like a baby and doesn't try!
Your child has some serious behavior issues and can be an *** at times
Write it here.What is the one thing you would like to be able to honestly tell a parent of one of your students?
I would love to be able to say (and would if I could think of a way not to sugar-coat it but to say it tactfully or at least in a way that wouldn't devastate the parents) that their child is struggling academically because they're just not all that smart. I know that sounds awful but I had two students one year who went through the child-study process to see if they qualified for special education. Both had been held back (one twice so she was 13 in the fifth-grade), failing academically, frustrated parents and frustrated teacher. Neither qualified for anything except help with speech (because they were found to be in the bottom one percent of receptive language). Their parents, I think, wanted them to qualify for special education in the hopes that this would be the educational equivalent of a diagnoses that would proceed to the special education cure that would ensure their child would be normal. Both also were found to have IQs between 70 and 75. Not low enough to receive services for mental retardation but it made it really hard for them to do well in a normal classroom and almost impossible to qualify for special education.What is the one thing you would like to be able to honestly tell a parent of one of your students?
Your child isn't telling you the whole truth. I have to say this kindly to parents all the time (I'm a college Dean, so I'm saying this about the students of the faculty in my college when parents call to complain about a faculty member, after I have investigated the circumstances), and most parents don't react well to it, but their kids have told them that their teacher was utterly unfair, never told them that something was going to be included on the test, or that the paper was supposed to take a certain form, when it was all clearly on the syllabus. The students whose parents I have to tell this to rarely admit that they haven't been to class in months, or that they used their textbook money to go out drinking, or that the reason they are failing the class was NOT because the teacher unfairly didn't like one of their papers, but that they had failed five tests before that. Many parents choose to immediately believe their sons or daughters and to take their sides against an instructor, when in very clear fact the child was in the wrong.
I'm not a parent or a teacher but I think that it's insane that teacher's can't be honest to parents about their kids because their afraid of getting sued or something. I mean they shouldn't be able to say that little Johnny is a dipshit but they shouldn't have to sugar coat the fact that he's not the brightest crayon in the box and needs remedial classes (or whatever the problem is, especially if it's behavioral).
I had a very hard time with a student once actually letting his parents know the truth. I was teaching year 2 in a s private school in Uganda (UK system) and Roland had already been held back a year after being transferred from another Kampalan school. He was transferred because they had no facilities for special needs. I had to tell his parents at the end of the year that he had special needs. His parents thought (hoped) he was just shy, but he was being overtaken ';academically'; by his 3 year old brother. I had to tell them this. It was awful. But they had to know the truth, it was not because he was shy. He had almost no working memory, so he couldn't remember the numbers up to ten, let alone the alphabet. He was nearly 8 at this point.
In the end I had to burst their ballooon and just tell the truth. Of course by then we had a structure for his education in the next school year. Not easy, but I will never lie.
Stop babying your child! She won't do her work without whining and asking for help every 5 seconds! She CAN do the work, I've seen her do it! But she acts like a baby and doesn't try!
Your child has some serious behavior issues and can be an *** at times
What do you do about over protective parents?
My parents are MAJORLY over protective and i like to think im a very respectful person, and I dont want to hurt them, but i need to breath if you know what I mean... wut do i do?What do you do about over protective parents?
Be assertive, rather than aggressive. A typical example:
Girl: Mum, today after school I'm gonna see the gynaecologist, so I'm gonna get home a little later.
Mum: No way - I'm driving you there!
Girl: Thanks mum, but I'd rather go on my own; plus, it's two blocks from school.
Mum: I don't care, I'm your mother and I want to go with you
Girl: I understand that, but I prefer to go by myself
Mum: Don't you even trust me?
Girl: Of course I do, but I prefer to go by myself
Mum: What if that gynaecologist is a bad one?
Girl: Then we'd be in a lot of trouble since she's the same one you go to.
Mum: Don't be all witty with me, I know where you're going
Girl: Of course you do: I'm going to the gynaecologist; alone, by the way...
Mum: You conceited prat! You think you're an adult already?
Girl: I know I'm not an adult yet, but I'm old enough to go to the gynaecologist by myself, which I will
Mum: I just wanna be part of your life
Girl: I understand that, but I'll go on my own
Mum: You're growing so fast, it's hard for me to accept it
Girl: I understand that, but I'll go on my own
Mum: Just promise me you'll be home before six
Girl: Sure.
Mum: Take care
Girl: You too. See ya!
In that semi-fictional dialogue, nobody yelled, no doors were slammed, no insults were uttered, no grounding was necessary, and the mother learnt a valuable lesson: she can't stop her kid from growing up.
Loads of times, parents are right when they argue with their kids; loads of times, parents are wrong: it's the 'how' you defend your position the key to a good communication path and a healthy adolescence with increasing individuality and independence.
Note that, on the dialogue, the girl didn't say 'you're overwhelming', she merely stated her desire to go by herself (which is the main point), and implied that it was a definite decision (e.g. 'but I'll go on my own', as opposed to 'I want to go on my own').
This is something you've got to work on every single day. At the end of the day, it's about choosing one's battles. Your parents can set a curfew and there's nothing you can do to change it (although you can change their perspective so they'll change the curfew), but they can't 'force' you not to grow up and have different interests.What do you do about over protective parents?
tell them too liberal of parents and too conservative of parents never works.....tell them if they see changes in you for the worse, then they were right and you were wrong...but tell them you need a chance to prove to them that you need some space....besides, one day you'll be exposed to the world for yourself
You thank god you still have your parents and work everyday to prove your trustworthiness and try to find some kind of common ground.
Be assertive, rather than aggressive. A typical example:
Girl: Mum, today after school I'm gonna see the gynaecologist, so I'm gonna get home a little later.
Mum: No way - I'm driving you there!
Girl: Thanks mum, but I'd rather go on my own; plus, it's two blocks from school.
Mum: I don't care, I'm your mother and I want to go with you
Girl: I understand that, but I prefer to go by myself
Mum: Don't you even trust me?
Girl: Of course I do, but I prefer to go by myself
Mum: What if that gynaecologist is a bad one?
Girl: Then we'd be in a lot of trouble since she's the same one you go to.
Mum: Don't be all witty with me, I know where you're going
Girl: Of course you do: I'm going to the gynaecologist; alone, by the way...
Mum: You conceited prat! You think you're an adult already?
Girl: I know I'm not an adult yet, but I'm old enough to go to the gynaecologist by myself, which I will
Mum: I just wanna be part of your life
Girl: I understand that, but I'll go on my own
Mum: You're growing so fast, it's hard for me to accept it
Girl: I understand that, but I'll go on my own
Mum: Just promise me you'll be home before six
Girl: Sure.
Mum: Take care
Girl: You too. See ya!
In that semi-fictional dialogue, nobody yelled, no doors were slammed, no insults were uttered, no grounding was necessary, and the mother learnt a valuable lesson: she can't stop her kid from growing up.
Loads of times, parents are right when they argue with their kids; loads of times, parents are wrong: it's the 'how' you defend your position the key to a good communication path and a healthy adolescence with increasing individuality and independence.
Note that, on the dialogue, the girl didn't say 'you're overwhelming', she merely stated her desire to go by herself (which is the main point), and implied that it was a definite decision (e.g. 'but I'll go on my own', as opposed to 'I want to go on my own').
This is something you've got to work on every single day. At the end of the day, it's about choosing one's battles. Your parents can set a curfew and there's nothing you can do to change it (although you can change their perspective so they'll change the curfew), but they can't 'force' you not to grow up and have different interests.What do you do about over protective parents?
tell them too liberal of parents and too conservative of parents never works.....tell them if they see changes in you for the worse, then they were right and you were wrong...but tell them you need a chance to prove to them that you need some space....besides, one day you'll be exposed to the world for yourself
You thank god you still have your parents and work everyday to prove your trustworthiness and try to find some kind of common ground.
How does my young friend make them parents buy him the new guitar hero?
My little friend who is 8 yrs old REALLLLLY wants the guitar hero 3. his parents won't let him because he needs to work on his studies and that. how can he or what can he do to make his parents buy him the game?
(asian kid's thinking please he's vietnamese)How does my young friend make them parents buy him the new guitar hero?
The truth is, money doesn't and never will grow on tree's.
When I was 8 years old I would do chores to earn my money, and get my own stuff!
And he needs to focus on his studies. Guitar hero = not as important as your grades. If he gets good marks in the next test he does, he can ask for some money to buy it.How does my young friend make them parents buy him the new guitar hero?
Maybe he can rake leaves and earn the money to buy it. I agree with the parents because the video games are super addicting and then you don't get your school work done then you get crappy grades and then you don't get a diploma nor get a good job.
(asian kid's thinking please he's vietnamese)How does my young friend make them parents buy him the new guitar hero?
The truth is, money doesn't and never will grow on tree's.
When I was 8 years old I would do chores to earn my money, and get my own stuff!
And he needs to focus on his studies. Guitar hero = not as important as your grades. If he gets good marks in the next test he does, he can ask for some money to buy it.How does my young friend make them parents buy him the new guitar hero?
Maybe he can rake leaves and earn the money to buy it. I agree with the parents because the video games are super addicting and then you don't get your school work done then you get crappy grades and then you don't get a diploma nor get a good job.
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