What would be a reason your parents wouldnt want you to see someone?

I'm writing a story, but I'm a little stuck.


In the story, the girls parents want to disown her for seeing a boy that they don't want her to see. The thing is I need a reason for why they don't want her to see him. Any ideas?What would be a reason your parents wouldnt want you to see someone?
You can go anywhere with this... Try something like religion, or his race, or money. Or perhaps he is not educationally fit for her, or his abuses her if you want to go real deep, also what about drugs? Hope this helps. Good luck.What would be a reason your parents wouldnt want you to see someone?
I'm a parent and sometimes there is no specific reason.....it's just a gut feeling from watching the way he acts, the way he speaks to her and to others.


When my daughter was younger she dated a guy who was extremely controlling and manipulative. It was blatently obvious to her father and I, but she couldn't see it. Bit by bit he was brainwashing her.


I'm always suspicious of guys who don't like or want to be around her parents and her home, (especially when they are younger kids) and who always wants to get her off alone.
Because they get bad vibes from him..because his parents are known losers and they want ';the best'; for their daughter. Because his parents aren't rich and he goes to public school
rich girl poor guy. black white. etc
my parents hated my 1st boyfriend and in the end -I hate to admitt they were right. but he was my 1st love and before we even got married he had abused me.he came from a very disfuntional family,they literally hand fought each other.I had never seen anything like this in my life. But after being married 2 1/2 years.he has pulled ,dragged,hit me,kicked me and abused me verbally and mentally,and physically that I weighed only 89 lbs at age 22. when I finally was able to take my son and myself safely away from him and then lived in fear for the next 17 years.until my son was of age and I didn't have to worry any more.my mother-just had to make sure that she sat there one day.because I had no one else to call.and I ended up crawling back to her house that she told me so./real nice uh? my parents refused to visit or call me or if I went to there house he was not allowed to come with me and it just wasn't worth the hassel with my ex.I just wouldn't go anymore. they were afraid for me and I guess they did see the bad side of him but 25 years ago,you made your bed,now lie in it.


today my son is 29 and a fine upstanding man and has a family of his own and he has made me and my new husband of 25 years very proud. and he is nothing like his bio father.his bio father only saw him maybe 6 times while my son was growing up.but that was to his own dealings not mine.my mother even back then went to the guidance counsler to find out about him and his family.talk about confidentuality issues compared to today. my life was hell and I lived it secretly daily for too many years.I just thought at the time when I was a senior in high school that they were just being nasty to me,and didn't want me to date.I had very low self esteme of myself and couldn't believe how this guy made me feel. feel free to contact me if you more of the story.there's alot more to it and I should write a book about it myself maybe it'd save someone from the mistakes I made