How should I deal with my parents maybe getting a divorce?

My mom just told me today that my parents might get a divorce. I have been crying all day and I am so sad. How should I deal with this? What are some ways I can make myself happier and cheer up. Earlier I was watching the Food Network channel and that seemed to make me happier for some reason. Any ideas? Thanks for the help and please don't leave any rude comments. =)How should I deal with my parents maybe getting a divorce?
aw, hon, i have a friend that has parents that divorced. just don't get into it. they both will love you forever. you will love them both. and even if one seems to spoil you more or be nicer to you more or doesn'tpunish you more than the other, you can't choose sides. they both love you very much. OR if you want to still make them together, you know that a month ago on July 22 was Parent's Day. you should do a late parent's day present like make pie. I actually have an ingredient for REALLY good pie. and it doesn't have as much fatten thing than usual pies have actually. you wanna hear, love? well, here i go.


Creamy Banana Fruit Pie:


Ingredients: a 3-ounce package of instant vanilla pudding, 1/2 cup of chocolate chip, 1/2 cup of peanuts or walnuts (chopped), 2 banana (sliced), graham- cracker piecrust, and whipped cream


1. Make pudding according to the directions on the package


2. Mix chocolate chip, nuts, and bananas in the pudding,


3. Pour the mixture in the piecrust,


4. Refrigerate for at least two hours.


5. Top each slice with whip cream


AND BOOM! you've got a wonderful pie right there, baby. :)


and when you show this to your parents TOGETHER (wink,wink) they will be happy :D and you can tell them together how you feel about this. and say this in a calm voice. you can let out tears and you can just express any feelings you have had about all this.


OR if this all doesn't work out at the end, just trust God and live life as happy and lively as you can. you are a very nice person for wanting to have your parents together and you are probably a very interested in cooking which is also amazing. we both have something in common and we never met ;)


if you want to talk to me about more ingredients or something, send me a message at xxserenade36xx@yahoo.comHow should I deal with my parents maybe getting a divorce?
I'm so sorry!! I know having to suffer through a parent divorce is difficult.





My suggestions would be to do what makes you happiest in this tough time. Like you stated, watching the Food Network made you happy for a while, so doing things like that will help you. Tap in to your creative side and let it wash you away from reality for a while.





I'd also suggest not keeping these feelings to yourself. Find someone to vent to, like a close friend or maybe a relative. Trust me, it'll feel much better once you have the pain off your chest and you can talk freely about it with that close somebody.





But most of all, don't stir in your sadness. It's okay to cry, but continue living life like you did before you found out about this divorce. Go out with friends, watch a movie, play with your pets and/or siblings (if you have any). Keep on living, and keep on being you.





I hope that helps. I'm sorry once again about this, and I send my best wishes to you. Good luck. %26lt;3
Get a Punching bag and Some Gloves, Attack the bag as hard as you Can.


That will relieve any Bottled Up Stress


When you are Too Tired to be upset, Look Into Humor to cheer You Up


The Divorce of you Parents is an Unfortunate part of Life. Seek Comfort From friends and family.


I am so sorry, My parents are the Verge or divorce, So i feel your pain


HOWEVER, I am not scarred because with my parents apart (My dad is a truck driver) so with them apart the Lack of Yelling will Be soothing For me.
If the subject comes up you may mention that to most people that divorce is a real pain in the ***, and that it may not be worth the hassle. Encourage them to reconcile as it is better living with the devil you know than the one you may end up with in the future. The grass may be greener on the other side, but for how long? Ask them how they will handle the situation when and if you get married. Hope this helps.
just try not to dwell on it so much... keep your mind occupied on things you know you enjoy. it also helps to talk to someone about it. don't keep things all to yourself.


hope you feel better.. and hope the divorce [if it happens] is a smooth one, nothing too harsh..
Try to talk to your parents. They both love you and want what's best for you. Or do you like to do anything? Try to keep your mind of the situation and focus on things you like.





Hope all goes well. P.S. try talking to friends that have gone though divorce if u have any.





:)
Think of it this way, you all will be much happier. Just realize that it is not your fault. Your parents grew apart! They love you very much and you have to be strong for them.
when my dad died i bottled that up don't do that please dont hold it in get you r mind off it and please feel b etter